We separated on his terms he said if I wanted a divorce I could file myself. I was wanting to wait it out and see and he turned around and said he wanted the divorce and had the filing fee and i cried but in the end sent him the link to start filing electronically. 3 weeks later i asked if he had filed and he said he had other things he had to deal with and he was ill and i said how does being ill keep you from filing online? He seemed ready to do it even said hed fill it out asap but keeps prolonging it. Personally i dont want the divorce im just trying to figure out where his head is.