My exes family are trying to come into my life a year after the break up. What can I do?

Question

My exes family started contacting me a year after we broke up and trying to stay in touch now but I'm not interested. Why would they try so hard now to stay in touch when we weren't close to begin with? How can I push them away without blocking their text msgs? Like how dare they put me in this type of situation when my life was great leaving the past in the past!

Answer 1

Goforit1010 | 380 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

You set boundaries with them. Speaking to them is one thing, but going to the topic of you and your ex is another.

If you truly don't want any interaction with them, politely remind them, you and your ex are no longer involved in a relationship. You and him don't talk to each other, text, write letters, call, etc... please leave me alone.

If they still persist in contacting you, at that point, block them. If it gets any worse after that, call the police.

Answer 2

Darcia

Xper 7

Yeah I had an ex family member do the same to me. She would text me constantly. Until one day I blocked her from contacting me. I haven’t received any other response from them. I’m glad I did this it’s been several years and I have moved on.

Answer 3

Walamagicc

Xper 5

I’ve had a friend deal with this. Maybe they liked you when y’all were dating but if y’all have been broken up, it’s odd they think it’s okay to contact you.

steph1464

10 d
I know!!! So odd dude. That's why I'm like uuhhh 🙄 lol like go away lol

Answer 4

steph1464

I know!!! So odd dude. That's why I'm like uuhhh 🙄 lol like go away lol

Answer 5

KrakenAttackin | 151 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

You are 35 and need help from the internet with this?

Answer 6

razilia

Xper 3

Just ignore. They will eventually stop. No need to be rude.

Answer 7

Bat-Perv

Xper 5

Is there a child involved

steph1464

10 d
No!!! (Sorry not screaming at you just like wth with the situation lol) We have no ties whatsoever! Like this is creepy and I'm a nice person but I'm starting to think about becoming rude just to show I'm not interested even after a year of break up lol I don't understand this behavior to me it's very weird like c'mon what if I wasn't over the break up? How inconsiderate you know.
Bat-Perv

10 d
Just ignore them while bring polite.
steph1464

10 d
Yeah I am. I'm just baffled >.< That's all. Like uh bye Felisha! 👋saying hi every once in awhile I can do but not try and communicate on a weekly or daily basis. Like wth is their problem. Anyways thanks!

Answer 8

steph1464

No!!! (Sorry not screaming at you just like wth with the situation lol) We have no ties whatsoever! Like this is creepy and I'm a nice person but I'm starting to think about becoming rude just to show I'm not interested even after a year of break up lol I don't understand this behavior to me it's very weird like c'mon what if I wasn't over the break up? How inconsiderate you know.

Answer 9

Bat-Perv

Just ignore them while bring polite.

Answer 10

steph1464

Yeah I am. I'm just baffled >.< That's all. Like uh bye Felisha! 👋saying hi every once in awhile I can do but not try and communicate on a weekly or daily basis. Like wth is their problem. Anyways thanks!

Answer 11

OceanMelon

Xper 7

Do you have something of his?

steph1464

10 d
No love I don't. I don't know it's just weird. They haven't contacted me today so yay :)
OceanMelon

9 d
That's good, maybe he'll give up