Closure letter?

Question

Hi there! I’m new to this website and hoping that someone could give me some pointers or help to write a closure letter! It has been over 2 months since we part ways and they way it all ended still haunts me til this day, I hate the emotional side of it! Thank you in advance!

Answer 1

btbc92 | 634 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Ask yourself what is the reason? That is the key here. The reason is how you need to write it, and then read what you wrote before you think that writing it was a good idea. Just know that she may not want to read it.

bracins

11 d
Hi thanks for reply! She left me out of this decision! I’m not going to be straight up d**k and call her b***h or anything like that! If she wants to read it she will if she don’t then she won’t that’s up to her! Just want to explain to her my point of view and the situation she left me in and the way I’m coping with it! Does that really make me a monster? I’ve read some of the topics here and 98% people will say no leave it, move on, don’t bother etc. Just this and then that’s it done MIA
btbc92

11 d
I think the truth is only you know what kind of person she is. Which you read it on she wasn't. If you feel that you wouldn't read it it probably wouldn't make any sense for you to write it and send it. But if you need to get that out of your chest, you can still write it down, but then don't send anything. The reality is that is up to her and is really not much that can be said. Other than going to be bitter about it but that's why a lot of them don't have good relationships to begin with. But still in all oh, I think that you're just being more so of a gentleman. But like I said, it can hurt her even more if you send it and it may cause a lot of mixed feelings football free games. So what I think you should do is just maybe wait for a little while and then maybe send it if that's what you want. But to write it and then send something right away may cause a lot of problems.
bracins

11 d
I just want to express my feelings, this is about me now, I can’t read her mind or say what she thinks only she knows! I am a man, but does that means I can’t cry or be emotional! Sometimes I wish I was emotionless peace of s**t because then it would be easier! Just an off topic question? If you ask for opinion, but give false information then the outcome will be what?
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btbc92

11 d
People won't respect you. That's the outcome. Nobody says you don't feel and not entitled to them. But that you have to put the person's wellbeing before your own. However, you have to take care of yourself first and get some therapy. Only a professional can help you with that. And let God heal you from those problems.
bracins

11 d
Thank you! Therapy sounds good but I can’t afford it at the moment! I just need a bit more time! 🙏
btbc92

11 d
Whenever you can afford it or get health insurance to cover it, make it a priority.
btbc92

11 d
In the meantime, give it to God, focus on God. Not her. Pray for her, but let God do the rest of your lives.

Answer 2

bracins

Hi thanks for reply! She left me out of this decision! I’m not going to be straight up d**k and call her b***h or anything like that! If she wants to read it she will if she don’t then she won’t that’s up to her! Just want to explain to her my point of view and the situation she left me in and the way I’m coping with it! Does that really make me a monster? I’ve read some of the topics here and 98% people will say no leave it, move on, don’t bother etc. Just this and then that’s it done MIA

Answer 3

btbc92

I think the truth is only you know what kind of person she is. Which you read it on she wasn't. If you feel that you wouldn't read it it probably wouldn't make any sense for you to write it and send it. But if you need to get that out of your chest, you can still write it down, but then don't send anything. The reality is that is up to her and is really not much that can be said. Other than going to be bitter about it but that's why a lot of them don't have good relationships to begin with. But still in all oh, I think that you're just being more so of a gentleman. But like I said, it can hurt her even more if you send it and it may cause a lot of mixed feelings football free games. So what I think you should do is just maybe wait for a little while and then maybe send it if that's what you want. But to write it and then send something right away may cause a lot of problems.

Answer 4

bracins

I just want to express my feelings, this is about me now, I can’t read her mind or say what she thinks only she knows! I am a man, but does that means I can’t cry or be emotional! Sometimes I wish I was emotionless peace of s**t because then it would be easier! Just an off topic question? If you ask for opinion, but give false information then the outcome will be what?

Answer 5

btbc92

People won't respect you. That's the outcome. Nobody says you don't feel and not entitled to them. But that you have to put the person's wellbeing before your own. However, you have to take care of yourself first and get some therapy. Only a professional can help you with that. And let God heal you from those problems.

Answer 6

bracins

Thank you! Therapy sounds good but I can’t afford it at the moment! I just need a bit more time! 🙏

Answer 7

btbc92

Whenever you can afford it or get health insurance to cover it, make it a priority.

Answer 8

btbc92

In the meantime, give it to God, focus on God. Not her. Pray for her, but let God do the rest of your lives.

Answer 9

Tututwerl09 | 141 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

Honestly I've been in your situation before and it doesn't work either trying to get them to talk to you or trying to get them back. Do it where she can respond back and then you guys talk it out.

bracins

11 d
I’m not trying to get her back and I don’t think she will talk to me, that’s why I want to write it because it will be the truth! I’m not aiming to hurt her!
Tututwerl09

11 d
I understand you're not trying to hurt her. What's the point of writing her... I guess to get the truth out. Sure you can do it but keep your expectations low
bracins

11 d
I’m not really expecting anything from her! It is the way it is I can’t change that, just trying to cope with it and writing does help a bit because there is nobody talking in the left or right ear? Why? What? How? When? What about me? Etc

Answer 10

bracins

I’m not trying to get her back and I don’t think she will talk to me, that’s why I want to write it because it will be the truth! I’m not aiming to hurt her!

Answer 11

Tututwerl09

I understand you're not trying to hurt her. What's the point of writing her... I guess to get the truth out. Sure you can do it but keep your expectations low

Answer 12

bracins

I’m not really expecting anything from her! It is the way it is I can’t change that, just trying to cope with it and writing does help a bit because there is nobody talking in the left or right ear? Why? What? How? When? What about me? Etc

Answer 13

slatyb | 354 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Just don’t. What’s the point? How will it be helpful to your ex? Nobody wants to read that. It’s over and it’s time to move on.

bracins

12 d
6 years, already started to plan a child, save up for house and then just like that from nowhere “I have to go back” and she lied! Will I still be a monster if I tell her how I feel?

Answer 14

bracins

6 years, already started to plan a child, save up for house and then just like that from nowhere “I have to go back” and she lied! Will I still be a monster if I tell her how I feel?

Answer 15

In_Trance | 589 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Omg... come on

bracins

11 d
Thanks! Funny

Answer 16

bracins

Thanks! Funny

Answer 17

Anonymous

Are you going to write it just for yourself or are you planning to give it to her?

bracins

12 d
I’m planning to mail it to her abroad! Thanks

Answer 18

bracins

I’m planning to mail it to her abroad! Thanks

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