So I initially met this guy and over time I met his wife too. Well over the 4 years or so I've known them I became friends with both of them. Also the entire 4 years the guy has off and on wanted a divorce, but I think this time they really are. The issue now is I feel like I've lost two friends be cause the wife doesn't like me hanging out with her husband and now the husband is paranoid and thinks she sends me over to collect info. I don't give two shits about their situation it's none of my business. I just feel the only solution is to quit hanging out with both of them now until this blows over. Most my friends are flaky though so it hurts me a lot have to do that. Opinions?