Who enjoys divorces more? Men or women?

[Anonymous]

Neither enjoy the process of the divorce. But after the divorce is finalised, the woman usually walks away with money, the kids, a house, so...

[pleasestopthis]

I don't think people enjoy getting divorce, all the lawsuits and fights over custody and other things, sounds super stressing.

[OlderAndWiser]

Who enjoys divorces more? Attorneys!

Why? Because. . . marriage is grand, but divorce is 100 grand! :) :) :)

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I know from experience that children are the ones who enjoy it the least.
But parents are POS and don't care.

[razelove]

It depends on the state, country and whether they have kids. Men definitely enjoy the experience more if there are no kids in a state with no alimony. However much it may sting, when it's over, you're free, that person is dead to you, cut them and everyone associated with them out of your life.

Hell, I profited off my divorce. So all assets are split 50/50, she had the bright idea of getting some 2500 credit card because she can pay 1200, so it'll work out. I went for a couple 10k lines and a loan or two from the bank, maxed it out on cash withdrawals, transferred all my assets to one of my friends including all my stuff before the divorce, the debt was split, I got my stuff back from him, paid him for his wonderful and timely help, paid off my portion of the debt, and... yeah. Turnabout is fair service, try to fuck me, I'm breaking out a lubed up cactus.

If there had been kids involved, or in NY, CA or one of those states with alimony, or that BS palimony, I'd have simply fled the country. Child support is one thing, I've seen alimony drive other men into bankruptcy... but you can't file bankruptcy on alimony! It doesn't matter if you have enough money to survive, you must pay or go to jail. That one is simply ludicrous to me. It's one thing we got right in the south, no alimony. If you want to keep the same standard of living you had while with him, then stay together, if you get divorced, you get a year of support MAX to land on your feet, have fun.

The kids are separate though, they of course get child support. Except in the highly unlikely case the mother doesn't get custody. I've only seen that when the woman abandoned the family and the court ruled without her there.

[cth96190]

The government statistic is that 50 per cent of first marriages fail after an average of eight years and that 80 per cent of divorces are initiated by women.
Among women who have a tertiary education, 90 per cent will initiate divorce.
After 12 years, 94 per cent of marriages have failed.

Men are destroyed financially and turned into impoverished slaves by spousal and child support orders.
All that and some clueless women ask “where did all the men go?”
During 2020 half the single men aged 30 years and younger did not have sex. Most did not even try. No dating, nothing.
The only way for men to avoid near-certain financial destruction and at least two decades of poverty and enslavement is to go MGTOW monk.
Women, you did it to yourselves.

[Jjpayne]

That's a tough call... It could be equal on this one but let's play it safe and say the partner with the most unreasonable expectations. But to be fair... While cheating can be Inspired by unreasonable expectations it's not the only reason to divorce either but I think it might be a reason that some do

[REALSTEEL]

cause they always win the upper hand they get spousal support money they get child support money plus 50 percent of everything he has and if he has a child with her she automatically gets the house and car only thing men get is more stress then the man has to find a place to live then get a car buy and start completely over and the man carrys with him all ❤ break and mental stress with him then he probably has to kiss her ass to see his kids which she probably won't let him just to be a bitch and stress continues for year's and year's meanwhile she's living the high life in your house paying her alimony and paying hdr child support that probably 15 percent of the child support goes towards the child the rest goes to hdr for what ever she wants and driving around in your picking up guys grocery shopping enjoying life at your cost

[lucas262]

Something like 65% of marriage ends in divorce, 80% of then are filed by women, and men keep the kids around 10%, of the time.

Maybe 10_15% stay together for they're kids or are trapped in unhappy marriage

The courts and gov, and laws are on women's side, there is little incentive not to leave and still have everything taken care of, if you understand divorce laws and family court the women on mass have very little to lose,

And it can be anytime over nothing more than her saying ,, im not happy,, and your life is over, kids gone, house, dog, smacked with alimony and child support.

Out side main family court hq. Is a statue of a woman holding the decapitated head of a man. That alone answers this.

[Dragonpurple]

I can't say anyone enjoys it, but my personal direct observations of court of watching other cases and my own is the women do use it to manipulate their ex or soon to be ex. If she enjoys manipulation then she might enjoy it but otherwise, no one actually enjoys it.

[jgokgotit]

Definitely women. They initiate them more and also tend to have more to gain from divorce than men, especially if children are involved. Unfortunately I've come across women who have freely admitted to marrying a guy for a while so she can benefit from getting alimony in the divorce.

[Raskad]

I.. don't think divorces are necessarily enjoyed, like, I don't think anyone's throwing a party afterwards, unless one side is getting something out of it i. e. money. And also.. divorce isn't running rampant, it's a good thing! Divorce is the end of a bad marriage, smh.

[exitseven]

Yeah, it's a lot of fun to get kicked out of your house and have at least half your salary disappear and have to move in with your degenerate best friend and sleep on his sofa.

[Not_Average]

Women since they initiate it much more so than men. Modern feminist women are shit in regards to marriage. Traditional women are the only ones worth marrying.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Here we go again...
I don't have to scroll down to know this comment section will be full of bitter dudes claiming "women this and that".

[Account]

The whole thing sounds like a mental torture. Exhausting.
I would never want to go through something like that.

[Kas19]

Lawyers. Divorce is heartbreaking and emotionally exhausting. I would never want to go through one.

[Anonymous]

Women ask for divorce more but I think that men enjoy the freedom from marriage more.

Feminists claim that the problem must be men because women file for divorce at a higher rate than men, but if you look as single sex marriages you see a different side to those statistics

Lesbian marriages have the undisputed highest level of divorces. Heteronormative relationship are below them and male gays have the most stable marriages and the lowest rates of divorce.

Hmmmm

[Trudrew88]

I saw a woman have it painted on her car. Like just married ya this said just divorced lol. I have seen guys celebrate too. I've also seen guys and girls heartbroken from it. So its mutual between the sexes. Either one is happier about it

[Coulis]

Who "enjoys" divorce. The process of tearing apart two intertwined lives not to mention all the paperwork... . Eeerr no.

[SphynxUK]

Divorce is a hideous and painful thing. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I can hardly imagine anyone enjoying getting divorced...