Needing to break up?

Question

I need to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. The love just isn't there anymore. What's the best way to go about starting the conversation?

Answer 1

Coulis

Xper 6

Loke a band aid. Be clear succinct. Don't apologize. Just say it straight. If there's someone else already don't tell him. Even if you have to lie. It's better to spare him.

Make sure you are sure when you announce it. You will feel pangs of doubt and this may give h8m false hope.

Answer 2

ArrowheadSW | 114 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

One way is to say, "Do you think there is any reason to continue this relationship?"... He might be thinking the same thing also.

Answer 3

ItsTheNephilim | 522 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Just tell him that there is something that needs to be discussed and talk about breaking up with him.

Answer 4

Iron_Man | 1.5K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

There is no easy way you just tell her we need to talk this weekend face to face and he comes over and you do it right then and there

Iron_Man

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Sorry voice command error I mean you tell him
Asker

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He lives with me :(
Iron_Man

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Wow that’s super tough are you sure you wanna break up? By law in the USA you have to give a 30 day notice if he’s living at your house unless he just leaves on his own
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Asker

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Yes I'm sure. His name isn't on my lease. He doesn't work, doesn't contribute. And I just don't love him. It's harsh but the longer I put it off, the more resentful I get.
Iron_Man

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It doesn’t matter if his names on your leash he’s got squatters rights I’m very familiar with the situation anyway you do what you have to do it but make it soon because if he refuses to go then you get the 30 day option going
Iron_Man

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Lease
Asker

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Thank you.
Iron_Man

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You’re very welcome

Answer 5

Iron_Man

Sorry voice command error I mean you tell him

Answer 6

Asker

He lives with me :(

Answer 7

Iron_Man

Wow that’s super tough are you sure you wanna break up? By law in the USA you have to give a 30 day notice if he’s living at your house unless he just leaves on his own

Answer 8

Asker

Yes I'm sure. His name isn't on my lease. He doesn't work, doesn't contribute. And I just don't love him. It's harsh but the longer I put it off, the more resentful I get.

Answer 9

Iron_Man

It doesn’t matter if his names on your leash he’s got squatters rights I’m very familiar with the situation anyway you do what you have to do it but make it soon because if he refuses to go then you get the 30 day option going

Answer 10

Iron_Man

Lease

Answer 11

Asker

Thank you.

Answer 12

Iron_Man

You’re very welcome

Answer 13

Avicenna | 1.2K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Sit him down when you can both talk without distractions and tell him how you feel.

Answer 14

whatdoyouwantt

Xper 6

You need to explain the reasons why

Answer 15

Luckycharms12

Explorer

Just being honest say feeling aren't there anymore

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