My baby daddy wants a baby with someone else but he isn’t taking care of our son?

[btbc92]

I think your ex has other plans in mind. There are crazy men out there that are so keen on getting women pregnant to spread their seed everywhere. It is clear that this is more than just moving on from you, or just not taking care of your son. But a plot to get women pregnant. If she gets pregnant, he'll more and likely leave her too as part of his sick fetish. I think what you need to do now is find evidence to be presented in this is really true.

If the other woman wants to get pregnant, that is her choice. Not by this kind of man. But her choice nonetheless. I don't know what is your actual question here. Are you asking what should you do to know that he wants to get somebody else pregnant and isn't taking care of your son? Or are you more concerned that he will do the same to the other woman, and shouldn't get pregnant because of the neglect? Either way, you need evidence of this. And that your not just crying wolf or seeking the father's attention.

As some users have already stated, your option is child support if you don't already have that available, or reporting the matter. However, be CAREFUL with this as we do not entirely know the situation and neither do you fully understand the nature of his new relationship. Some men especially may go off the handle and try to physically threaten you, if not the woman herself. It is important that you understand what is the purpose of all of this and whether or not it is warranted. Your main concern right now should be the welfare of your child, which is your top priority.

Everything else is a word of caution if you intend to go that far. You cannot prevent somebody else from being a victim. You can only inform your concerns and stress the need to make sure that if he is going to be that evil and reckless, he needs to contribute to the rendering of his son. He needs to be active. Period. If he cannot help his son, he doesn't need any more children. But only God can be the judge on that end. If it happens, it happens. God is in control, and it will be on the baby father's conscience because of his negligence. Sometimes these things have to happen with people's sexual sin because it teaches people to either wake up and chance or see the amount of damage premarital sex and having children out of wedlock causes.

So again, handle this with the necessary people who can help you legally, and seek legal counsel if it is again, a warrant of concern. Because the next step is him using this to manipulate the girl or vice versa to say the moment he gets her pregnant, is you being vindictive and trying to sabotage his new relationship. Only you and God knows what you will do. But as I said, be mindful of what is the intent with this.

[HollyK21]

I would take him to court for child support, as he still needs to fulfill his legal obligation and it’s not fair for him to be able to walk away from his responsibility. Regarding his involvement though, there’s not much you can do. It’s disgusting and shameful behavior on his end, but if he wants to pretend this child doesn’t exist then let god take care of that.

[ohshee]

I don't care who we are what we do in this world we have to pay for everything one way or the other his karma will probably be he wants his baby he will get his baby but then they will get a divorce or split at and then he will have to pay that child support to I don't understand men you're willing to say or do anything to get what they what. The way it comes time to pay up they have no money

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You need to tell him he needs to step up and do his part as a father for your baby and if he refuses tell him you will take him to court for child support?

[Flower7]

There's nothing at all you can do about that. I'm also not sure what the question is here. It does sound like a bad situation all around though.

[007kingifrit]

well maybe you should talk to her and tell her he doesn't take care of the kid he already has. also where are you from and like what demographics are there where this is a real situation someone could get into? i've never heard the term baby daddy outside like a movie

[whatdoyouwantt]

Let him do whatever, there's nothing much you can do anyways. You will just stress yourself..

[Coulis]

Only read the title. Blergh to this whole situation. Get out of this lifestyle.

[Dragonpurple]

Not much you can do about it, he is an adult and if he wants another baby. Maybe he thinks having shared custody is too big of a hassle and just wants to start over with someone new.

Without all the details, no idea what he is thinking.

[loveslongnails]

Why am I not surprised. Is there a question here? Are you wondering "why" your deadbeat ex wants another baby when he doesn't take care of the one he already made? Because he's an irresponsible fucking loser.

[Anon621]

It sounds like he has moved on very sadly. I would recommend trying to get him to pay child support if possible even though that will be difficult.

[LZPanzer]

Do you have sole custody? Does he pay child support? If so he doesn't have to pay the kid any attention, he has met his legal obligation.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Sounds like his parents need to talk to him, not you

[hello_kitty_man]

Well I am sorry to hear that your baby dad is an irresponsible dead beat.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Talk to your child support lawyer.

[BeachLuvR97]

Sounds like a real winner!

[anylolone]

He's a moron.

But hey, condoms next time.

[NYlatefun]

Well he’s a real gem!

[BlackPrince1]

Umm talk with a lawyer?

[Sabretooth]

He's a real piece of shit.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yeah, so?