What Would Be Worse: Getting A "Dear John" Letter From Your Partner Or Finding Out They've Been Cheating On You And Lying To You? (Page 2)
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Catching a cheater is definitely worse
Right! Cuz you don't know what else you might catch if their nasty ass wasn't using condoms
Yup, and they probably don't too often
Doubt it
I say both deer John letter tell you’ve been cheating.
It would be bad if I found out she was cheating?
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Both of those sound equally bad to me
Yes they do but reality for too many people
I feel like most people pick the cheating as worse, but the Dear Johh letter could feel far worse, knowing the love of your life is leaving you for someone else, and you could argue they also cheated, depending on how you define cheating. They could cheat and lie, but you both move past it. There is no moving past them straight up leaving you for someone else. Both are painful though.
Good points
I'd rather find out she's been cheating, quite like the idea of being a cuckold tbh,
Cheating hurts way more
I would think so
Either way, some guy is about to get hurt.
Guy or Gal... Cheating, shitty people don't just come in one gender, unfortunately they come in both
True, but I'm not going to hit a girl.
Oh that's not the way I thought you meant... Now I get it duh lol excuse the blonde moment lololol
No worroes. You interpretation was also correct. No one wins in that situation.
Exactly!! Either way you get hurt.. And both the actions of a coward but at least with a letter you'd finally know versus them continuing the lies/deceit
Agreed.
I guess that's the silver lining to being alone.
But not everyone's like that.. My second hubby wasn't...
I agree.
The "Dear Jihn" letter is at least honest!
That's my thinking
Ye but would I know or not know
Finding letter