my ex and i got back together a few weeks back. he had given me a ring while we were together which meant a lot to me. but i gave the ring back after we broke up cos i didn't wanna be reminded of the hurt. he brought up the ring while talking today and told me that if i had actually cared for the ring and truly loved him i wouldve talked to him about it. i told him that i was too hurt to talk about the ring and that I don't know if he would be okay w returning it back. he told me that what i told him didn't make sense and it was bs. are my feelings valid? or am i a bad girlfriend?