Have you ever had someone break up with you and later come crawling back?

[aintnocandle]

They always come back. Whether it be a few weeks or a few years, I’ve never had a guy not try coming back.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yeah lol

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Excellent question my friend, thank you for asking it!
It sort of happened to me, with a person who liked to play hot and cold. In the end I cut off every contact.
What about you, if I can ask?

[coachTanthony]

Yes a few but I would have to say it was my fault for allowing those red flags to begin with... I should of never been in it that long to begin with...

so of course when they come back that means they got shitted on by someone else more then likely and now it's time to "settle" with the guy who treated them right.

Nahhhhh baby Nahhhhhh... Asta La Vista.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No but I've ended things and had them try to come back

[razelove]

Yes, I was weak and had low self-esteem in my first marriage, so cheating, kicking her out, take her back in. She does a lot of drugs, tears a wall out searching for bugs while I'm at work, bring her to the hospital for a mental eval, because I didn't find the drugs until I got back home. Took her back a week or two after she got out the hospital.

It was a living hell. Honestly, I couldn't get her to leave in a way that she wouldn't come back in some absolutely pathetic way that would tug at my little heart strings and take her back.

I moved all my money to one of my friends, took out some loans from the bank, gave half to him to hold onto, quit my job, and told her we were broke, party's over. Next morning she packed up, said all manner of kind words, and left. Divorce went in my favor, there were no assets but debt to split, got my money back from my friend and gave him a bird dog fee for holding it.

Took me a while to get over that, but it made me more callous, and stronger for BS other people, men and women, pulled over the years. Hell, one time I tried to leave she ran straight out onto the hood of my car as I was pulling out and took the hit just to stop me from leaving.

It was terrifying. Also my fault as well, I didn't have the balls to leave, keep her locked out, and simply shoot her if she broke in.

[Vickymoore9]

OMG to many times it was pathetic each time I tried not to roll my eyes and kick them in the face. These where times mostly where I knew he wasn’t the one. I hate it because I’ve had guys tell me I’m to bossy and end it. I respect a MAN like that he isn’t going to waste his time I’m not the kind of women he wants. So at the same time he ain’t wasting my time and we can move forward. I dated a guy and we just had a culture separation I realized and he didn’t want to face. He was American but his family was from India he obviously 🙄 like to control everything. My best friend who is also for a family from india but born and raised her had warned me it wouldn’t work out. She was right obviously why she didn’t date them she like me is a very independent women. This guy went to showing up at my work and arguing with me about why I was breaking up. Then blowing up my phone to being served with harassment protection order against him. I had other guys who was American and white guys who did the same thing. I think the best thing is moving forward anytime you go backwards crawling into your knees. Your going to end up stuck in weakness and wasted time you could had been so much farther ahead in life

[pigoat]

No actually


Closes thing to it was my moms friend "little rascal" was dating his girlfriend 12 years younger than him and he cheated on her


When we picked them up to take them home just heard little rascal saying the whole time "no baby no don't give up on me no please don't " he was crying

He got out the car fist bumped my mom and started walking away until my mom told him that she can't tak his girlfriend home so he came back and he and his girlfriend wrestled in the back of our van

little rascal being a man and stronger overpowered his girlfriend carried her on one shoulder and took her with him as we drove off

[monkeynutts]

Not really, some girls I’m so connected with that I would never not want to share that emotional bond with again, so the only woman that has come back was my ex fiancé, but I don’t classify it as the idea of crawling, because she is always allowed to be vulnerable, and if she needs my help, I’m always there, so I don’t really understand the concept of feeling pity or contempt for people you have loved, even when they may have done wrong by you, otherwise you never really cared about them in the first place, so no wonder they left you.

[David92506]

I was dating a woman for about 6-months and she asked if I could help out with some of her expenses. For example, she needed help with her medical insurance, car insurance, rent, etc. I told her I didn't want to do that. So she found a SugarDaddy on craigslist and broke it off with me. The SugarDaddy didn't work out too well, and she begged for a second chance. So I guess you could say she came "crawling back" to me. I told her okay. Within one week she found another SugarDaddy and broke it off with me again.

[Blue_Bottle]

I did that because of my mental instability. I had gone trough some... could I say traumatic experiences online? And I felt I wasn’t ready for her, despite she being literally the perfect girl for me. I broke up, then came crawling back. She gave me a second chance but then the darkness of my trauma came back and I felt heavily depressed and suicidal. So we broke things off and I am now in therapy with medication (anti-depressant) since mid-November 2020
I wish I had been a better and stronger man... once you taste Heaven it’s hard to imagine yourself ever meeting someone again :(

[GnatSocks]

Yep, they would break up due to me being kinda insane, but in a nonthreatening, nonviolent, rant-about-adenochrome-at-3-in-the-morning, lovable kind of way. Later they would come back, and I'm even crazier (at that point, I'm just fucking with them, though), and they'll decide it's not worth it.

[Jjpayne]

It is something... you sometimes take people for granted and you realize that it was someone worth revisiting a second time. I've heard of a couple people that have done that. But sometimes you try looking for someone that you have a certain kind of connection with and sometimes, you reach for the stars and come up empty. Then you realize that it's worth seeing someone again that had enough qualities for a good relationship

[Skekss]

I met a guy online. He asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes. Later on i found out he was still on the dating app so i angrily confronted him and dumped him. Told him to do it to another girl and that i shouldve "seen the red flags".

However i couldnt stop thinking about him. Every time i closed my eyes he was there. So i came crawling back to him and he took me back.

Little did i know he only took be back to get revenge.
He asked me out on Valentine's day. We had sex. And the next day he cut off all contact with me and blocked me.
After weeks of trying to get in contact he finally responded and said " Get over me. Im not going to call you anymore"

I asked "what did i do?" And he said "too many red flags" and hung up


I deserve it I guess. For coming back to him.

[MrOracle]

Once or twice, but I have a clear policy - if we break up for any reason except a physical separation (someone moves away, for an important outside reason, such as military service or caring for a parent), then there is no getting back together.

You either stick together and work through the challenges together, or we're done.

[red324]

I never have. This girl broke up with me a couple months ago. Other than a b. s. text explanation I haven't heard or seen her since other than her car being parked outside. Looks like she moved in a few doors down, so now I'm going to run into her at some point plus I have to see her car now every time I have to go somewhere to pull out of my street. Makes it hard to move on. That's why you don't ghost people and act weird when you dump them.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Yes. Normally that happens when someone has no other options or the dead bond is too strong to forget. Either way, it's better to show that you can be just fine without them and have them make an effort to prove themselves of being worthy of your attention this time. Then again, you could always let them know that there are no second chances.

[AnthonyJ01]

I had that happen to me before. She kept breaking up with me, but she came back 3--4 times. Eventually I said no, I am not dealing with her crap any more. My ex wife would tell people, even the court that I would not accept divorce. She cheated on me and I would not go back to her.

[Marshymallow]

So far I've been the one doing the dumping but yeah I don't know why they keep crawling back.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Yes the ex, it was his party trick only on third run I told him not to bother coming back I'd already wasted nine years of my life with him for me to always simply be a temporary measure until something better cane along.

[The_Maphio]

I wouldn't accept them back anyway. If they really feel I am that important to them, shouldn't have left me to begin with.

[Gespenster_division]

My ex. She was unhappy with the slimey bastard she was cheating with and left me for. I began an affair with her and she left him for me. Fucked her for a while and left her not long after. She had great tits but horrible person and disloyal.