Thanks for your opinion and by abuse do you mean physical or emotional? I definitely agree cheating is definitely a deal breaker
On abuse... both emotional and physical
That would be the same for me, my ex broke up with me due to me being stressed which left me heartbroken so just wondering other opinions
Wtf. I'd never break up because of something like that. That's when she needs you the most
I know I feel that maybe I pushed him away and That’s why he couldn’t handle it anymore
That shouldn't happen though
My behaviour or him leaving?
Him leavingSo what if your stress levels make you more negative. He should still be there for you. And you recognize itIt would be positive for both
That’s what I thought, and two weeks after the breakup I apologised for my behaviour and asked if we could try again and if he wanted to take things more slowly or needed more space I would understand but he wasn’t interested
You're too good for him.What were you stressed out about?
Ah sorry I forgot to mention It was because of the pandemic
Awh. I'm sorryThat's definitely something he should've understood
Thank you, it’s just been extremely difficult that he couldn’t get through the rough patch with me and see how things would be after the breakup
You did your best. Don't think about it now. He wasn't the right one if he couldn't support you
Sorry just realised I said breakup rather than pandemic, I meant to say he couldn’t wait until this subsided and seen how things went
No, I actually read it right 😅😂Wow. I didn't notice that at all
lol sorry I only just seen and thought it made it confusing lol 😅
Nah, you're fine 🤗Hope you find the right man soon ☝🏻
Thank you! I just find it hard as I loved him very much :(
😞 sorry was this emoji I meant to use
Yeah. Heartbreak is awful 💔
Thank you for your opinion by the way, I do appreciate it!
Glad to talk 🙏🏻
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I understand what you mean, especially the cheating part, my partner broke up with me due to me being stressed during the pandemic. What would you class as incompatibility for you?
I couldn't be compatible with someone that's biased against all females...Or someone that's a racist...You don't have to share all the same beliefs to be compatible but some. And personalities need to be compatible as well
Ah I see my ex felt that since we started arguing due to me becoming stressed during the pandemic that we were incompatible
If I may ask, what were the arguments about?
It was petty things or I was getting stressed about something with work
Well he should of been supportive of that
I know that I guess he was at the beginning but I feel I pushed him away as then if something about work bothered me he would say I blew it out of proportion
Don't take guilt that isn't yours... If someone really loves you, even if you push them away, they wouldn't go that easy
Thank you for your opinion and advice! And you are right it’s just hard to accept reality at times
Thank you for your opinion! I appreciate it! How do you feel If a partner was stressed would it cause you to leave?
What a great girlfriend you would make OP
Umm, well, I can relate with stress. I don't really know... I would try my best to help them cope with it. I think everyone deals with stress so I don't think it would be a deal breaker. Unless the stress was making them act mean or something, than I would have a talk with them.
@Iron_Man Haha thanks
See my ex broke up with me due to my stress but I don’t feel he ever really sat down and talked to me about it, he just wanted me to stop feeling that way but didn’t really have a serious discussion with me before the breakup to talk about my stress to see if we could work through it
That's shitty, I think a lot of people are stressed during this pandemic thing. Maybe it was an excuse to break up? Did your behaviour change a lot when you were stressed? Maybe you were neglecting him? I think talking about what's bothering you guys would have helped.
Yeah it did a lot I became more negative and argumentative but it’s not how I am normally. Whenever I got stressed he wouldn’t have really sat me down or tried to see how we could handle or try to get through it. He would just want me to calm down or feel better but without asking me why I would be behaving the way I did
Hmm, yeah, that's the problem. I would have wanted to know why you were stressed, not put a band-aid on it. Sorry for that happening to you, hugs!!
Model is wise for her years she is a very good person according to her post That I’ve seen. She gives out great advice you can learn a lot from her
It’s no worries, thank you so much though! And yeah I agree iron_man, she is!!
Thank you for your opinion, so if you were with someone who was going through a tough time and was stressed you would leave them then? Just want to know as I’m interested in different perspectives
I would warn her to quit and if doesn't I will leave. Stress immediately affects my mental and overall health. I will not put my health in jeopardy.
Thanks for sharing my partner didn’t tell me any of this I would have appreciated someone being more direct.
Thank you for your opinion, would a partner being stressed make you end things?
No, everyone gets stressed. I have a high tolerance for stress.
Thank you, I just feel hurt as my ex left me when the pandemic made me stressed
That was a low class move. You are better off without him. I know it does not seem like it now but you will get over this. How are you doing now?
I just feel pretty low that my ex did that on me even though I wasn’t willing to throw the towel in but thank you for asking
It sucks. The pandemic has screwed up a lot of people. You are not alone in this.
Thank you, I just find it hard to not see myself as a bad person and not blame myself for the breakup
I don't think you are a bad person. You will get past this just be open to new possibilities.
Thank you very much and thanks for your opinion by the way! I appreciate it :)
you are welcome 😊😊😊✔✔✔
I’d agree with you, I think cheating would definitely be the nail in the coffin
I wish you didn’t have to say it like that I had bad dreams a couple years ago about coffins
Ah sorry it’s just a term of phrase I don’t mean to offend or anything
I know what you mean
I’m sorry if it came across that way
No it’s OK It just made me cringe a little bit but I’m over it. The dream was so bad and actually affected me Where I had to see a doctor a couple times
I’m sorry to hear that, how are you doing now in regards to the dream?
A lot better but I never went back in the bedroom anymore I’ve been sleeping in the living room for over two years now
Ah ok, fair enough, whatever makes you comfortable I guess
I’ll be OK thank you for talking to me
No worries! Thank you again for your opinion, I appreciate it!
You are welcome