Would you leave a partner if they were stressed?

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Just wondering as my ex broke up with me due to me becoming stressed which caused me to become more negative and argumentative during the pandemic. Just would like to know would you leave your partner If they were acting this way?

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FriendlyDrugDealer | 90 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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It depends, everyone has different thresholds. I can’t speak for everyone else but I’ll respond what I would do.

I was always encouraged to understand why people do things the way they do. So if she’s stressed from something or someone, I want to know what it is so I can assist them the best way I can as a partner. Troubleshoot the issue with her till we resolve it.

If she’s uncooperative or does something extreme and drastic then do something that could tarnish the relationship then yeah maybe I would but it truly depends

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- Mel2021
  
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  What would you say would be too drastic or extreme?
- FriendlyDrugDealer
  
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  Well, it could be drinking too much or substance abuse which can be fixed.
  
  There’s committing infidelity or throwing an anger tantrum which further complicates things
- Mel2021
  
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  Ah ok I understand, what if your partner never really sat you down though and tried to say we will work through this or something similar?
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- FriendlyDrugDealer
  
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  Then they wasn’t truly ready for the hardwork of a relationship
- Mel2021
  
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  Ah ok thank you for your opinion I just find it hard and hurtful to accept
- FriendlyDrugDealer
  
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  Yeah I know what you mean, it’s not easy to accept but you will find the strength and be able to have peace of mind one day
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you! :)

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Coulis
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If their stress level was becoming a danger to me and they were becoming abusive I wpuld have to give them a heads up that I'm there to support them but they can't be acting any kind of way.

Some people can't handle stress.

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- Mel2021
  
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  I understand but what if there was no danger as I feel now a days people give up too easily and first rough patch or stressful time they bail
- Coulis
  
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  I would agree. But we only hear your side and I wouldn't want to make a judgement without both.
- Mel2021
  
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  I understand that but I feel hurt that I would have stuck by him through rough patches and he didn’t
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- Coulis
  
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  Who knows, maybe he wasn't worth sticking by. Yiu may have given your all tonhim and he would have just discarded you. The positive will come eventually.
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you, I don’t feel like it but I hope so, thank you for your opinion by the way!
- Coulis
  
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  🤗🤗🤗

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dudeinohio | 1.7K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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I would not.

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- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you for your opinion! I appreciate it I find it tough knowing mine left when I was stressed? Is there anything that would make you leave your partner?
- dudeinohio
  
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  Cheating is the ultimate deal breaker. Abuse also would end the relationship. Anything else can be worked through. Stress and depression are something that requires support of the affected partner.
- dudeinohio
  
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  Sorry yours left😢
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- Mel2021
  
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  It’s ok don’t worry! Also thank you, when I was stressed I may have said hurtful things in the moment but I always regretted it later, would you call that abuse?
- dudeinohio
  
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  I think to call something emotional abuse, they would have to do it on a regular basis. Or.. on a pattern. A one time deal would just be acting out that one time.
- Mel2021
  
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  I understand what you mean but what if the stress was causing the partner to be that way even if they dosing want to but were under too much stress and it’s not how they normally behave?
- Mel2021
  
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  Sorry I meant to say “doesn’t want to”
- dudeinohio
  
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  That's a tough one. It depends on how often the outbursts occurred.
- Mel2021
  
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  Say it was once a week due to stress
- dudeinohio
  
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  I think, that would be okay.
- Mel2021
  
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  Ah ok thank you, my ex felt like he couldn’t take anymore of the stress so I guess I feel a lot of guilt for that
- dudeinohio
  
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  I just think it wore him down and he wasn't fully committed to you.
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you, it just hurts to realise this
- dudeinohio
  
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  well, in time, you'll be ok.
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you, also thank you for your opinion!
- dudeinohio
  
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  You are very welcome :)
Luckycharms12 | 117 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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I guess you can't

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- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you for your opinion! I appreciate it. Is there anything that would make you leave your partner?
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No way!

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- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you I just feel low as my ex left me when I became stressed during the pandemic and I feel I pushed him away
- Opinion Owner
  
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  I'm sorry to hear that and tbh he should of been more understanding i mean a lot of people suffering because of this pandemic hope you're okay
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you I am ok enough but still feel hurt at times about the breakup and that he left me as I felt I did something wrong to cause it
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  You seem lovely we all make mistakes and it's hard sometimes with stress and we do tend to take it out on the ones closet to us try not to be too hard on yourself I know easier said then done there's times where I've been like I shouldn't of said that we all do it I'm sorry you're hurting and I do wish you happiness x
- Mel2021
  
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  Thank you so much and thank you again for your opinion, I wish you all of the happiness too :) xo

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