Friend trying to get info out of me during her divorce?

Question

Im sad. I feel like i can't even hang out with either one of my friends going through a divorce. Did I lose two friends or should I just wait for this to blow over?

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15 d

I always was neutral. There divorce doesn't have anything to do with me, but I guess I realized you can't hang out with both of them and not have them think you aren't sharing info and such.

Answer 1

whatdoyouwantt | 159 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Xper 6

Maybe you should let them know you won’t be sharing any info as its none of your business and they should talk it out with each other

Answer 2

Anonymous

i'd just mind your own business, whether they ask you or not.

this is why married friends and non married friends fall apart. they can't relate.

red324

11 d
I do but the problem is they still get paranoid that I'm going back and forth between two people. I haven't talked to the husband for like 2 months. I only talk to his wife occassionally now. I'm just waiting for this thing to blow over but it seems like I probably lost two friends. They didn't understand my concerns from the beginning when this thing started and I said I didn't want to get stuck in the middle.

Answer 3

red324

I do but the problem is they still get paranoid that I'm going back and forth between two people. I haven't talked to the husband for like 2 months. I only talk to his wife occassionally now. I'm just waiting for this thing to blow over but it seems like I probably lost two friends. They didn't understand my concerns from the beginning when this thing started and I said I didn't want to get stuck in the middle.

Answer 4

Wise4myage | 187 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

I suggest you remain neutral and wait till things blow over. You risk losing one and maybe even both if you play favorites.

Wise4myage

15 d
Exactly, that's why its best to remain neutral.

Answer 5

Wise4myage

Exactly, that's why its best to remain neutral.

Answer 6

boggboss | 1.7K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

You wait and tell them you can't and won't take sides

Answer 7

NotTacocaT6969

Xper 5

Just wait for the dust to settle.

red324

14 d
So it's not necessarily that they don't like me or think that I betrayed them? More just the whole stress of the divorce?
red324

14 d
I didn't betray them, but I have a feeling they think i'm passing info back and forth.

Answer 8

red324

So it's not necessarily that they don't like me or think that I betrayed them? More just the whole stress of the divorce?

Answer 9

red324

I didn't betray them, but I have a feeling they think i'm passing info back and forth.

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