Well I'm pretty sure she blocked my texts and it took a while to figure out where I might have gone wrong. Now she happens to be living a few doors down from me. It's been about 3 months now. I think the whole issue is I was trying to go surprise her with flowers when she lived like 1.5hrs away and the person I asked for her address turned it into a shit show kind of because I kept asking and she has adhd and would forget to get it for me, then somehow her friend I was asking seemed to think I was possessive when all I was trying to do was surprise her. Everytime I do something like this to surprise a girl or something it turns into a disaster. We had only been dating maybe 2 months, but I thought it would've made a good impression. I don't know if showing up at her house is a good idea now even though I can technically just walk over. It was a mistake including her friend. What do you think?
I think I should just let it go at this point.
But I really think her friend messed things up for us... because we got along really well.
Well your ex shouldn’t of gotten mad like this... unless she has trauma from the past about this. I’m sorry hun I know you just tried to be nice. No guy ever did this for me. Anyways did you tell them what your intentions were, if you did then really let go cause if they know and still refuse you then thats their decision right there. Her loss
Well it was supposed to be a surprise and the friend fucked it up by instead of just finding the address for me, so I could go by myself she told the girl that they wanted to come up and visit. She wasn't really thinking clearly at the time and was going to bring a guy friend of hers that nobody likes along with me. No wonder she didn't go for that. So no she didn't know I wanted to bring her flowers and all that. Never heard from her after she texted her that b. s. Remember a woman can't pickup another woman. Only a guy knows what will make a girls heart flutter. She may have been mad that I showed up unannounced, but once she saw the bouquet of flowers I doubt it could have been for long. I wasn't able to go up there though.
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