What do you do when she breaks up but you want her back?

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Everyone says to just cut all contact. Other than a couple texts asking why with no answer a couple weeks after she broke up I haven't contacted her since. It's been about 3 months now.

Answer 1

Mel2021

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I would say at the moment to move on as she’s clearly not interested In talking at the moment. Give her time to miss you and if she does she will be back in contact with you at least to check and see how you are but I wouldn’t wait about on her. Stay single by all means and take the time you need but ball is in her court now to contact

Answer 2

whatdoyouwantt | 157 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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Cutting a contact when you want her back is a wrong idea. If I were you I’d try to fix my mistakes now and be a better person because if we don’t get attention we start to move on, while you guys your hearts grow founder

red324

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Well I'm pretty sure she blocked my texts and it took a while to figure out where I might have gone wrong. Now she happens to be living a few doors down from me. It's been about 3 months now. I think the whole issue is I was trying to go surprise her with flowers when she lived like 1.5hrs away and the person I asked for her address turned it into a shit show kind of because I kept asking and she has adhd and would forget to get it for me, then somehow her friend I was asking seemed to think I was possessive when all I was trying to do was surprise her. Everytime I do something like this to surprise a girl or something it turns into a disaster. We had only been dating maybe 2 months, but I thought it would've made a good impression. I don't know if showing up at her house is a good idea now even though I can technically just walk over. It was a mistake including her friend. What do you think?
red324

10 d
I think I should just let it go at this point.
red324

10 d
But I really think her friend messed things up for us... because we got along really well.
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whatdoyouwantt

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Well your ex shouldn’t of gotten mad like this... unless she has trauma from the past about this. I’m sorry hun I know you just tried to be nice. No guy ever did this for me. Anyways did you tell them what your intentions were, if you did then really let go cause if they know and still refuse you then thats their decision right there. Her loss
red324

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Well it was supposed to be a surprise and the friend fucked it up by instead of just finding the address for me, so I could go by myself she told the girl that they wanted to come up and visit. She wasn't really thinking clearly at the time and was going to bring a guy friend of hers that nobody likes along with me. No wonder she didn't go for that. So no she didn't know I wanted to bring her flowers and all that. Never heard from her after she texted her that b. s. Remember a woman can't pickup another woman. Only a guy knows what will make a girls heart flutter. She may have been mad that I showed up unannounced, but once she saw the bouquet of flowers I doubt it could have been for long. I wasn't able to go up there though.

Answer 3

red324

Well I'm pretty sure she blocked my texts and it took a while to figure out where I might have gone wrong. Now she happens to be living a few doors down from me. It's been about 3 months now. I think the whole issue is I was trying to go surprise her with flowers when she lived like 1.5hrs away and the person I asked for her address turned it into a shit show kind of because I kept asking and she has adhd and would forget to get it for me, then somehow her friend I was asking seemed to think I was possessive when all I was trying to do was surprise her. Everytime I do something like this to surprise a girl or something it turns into a disaster. We had only been dating maybe 2 months, but I thought it would've made a good impression. I don't know if showing up at her house is a good idea now even though I can technically just walk over. It was a mistake including her friend. What do you think?

Answer 4

red324

I think I should just let it go at this point.

Answer 5

red324

But I really think her friend messed things up for us... because we got along really well.

Answer 6

whatdoyouwantt

Well your ex shouldn’t of gotten mad like this... unless she has trauma from the past about this. I’m sorry hun I know you just tried to be nice. No guy ever did this for me. Anyways did you tell them what your intentions were, if you did then really let go cause if they know and still refuse you then thats their decision right there. Her loss

Answer 7

red324

Well it was supposed to be a surprise and the friend fucked it up by instead of just finding the address for me, so I could go by myself she told the girl that they wanted to come up and visit. She wasn't really thinking clearly at the time and was going to bring a guy friend of hers that nobody likes along with me. No wonder she didn't go for that. So no she didn't know I wanted to bring her flowers and all that. Never heard from her after she texted her that b. s. Remember a woman can't pickup another woman. Only a guy knows what will make a girls heart flutter. She may have been mad that I showed up unannounced, but once she saw the bouquet of flowers I doubt it could have been for long. I wasn't able to go up there though.

Answer 8

madgag

Xper 1

You take a shower and move on.

whatdoyouwantt

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Shower 🤣

Answer 9

whatdoyouwantt

Shower 🤣

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