Please I could use some advice?

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My ex and I split up a few weeks ago. I went by his place to get my belongings. We kissed a few times and hugged. As I was getting ready to leave, he kissed me one last time and said “we’re not over”. We’ve been texting everyday since the breakup. He tells me he loves me but there are some bridges burnt that can’t be repaired. Last night he came over and we smoked. I got cross faded. He told me he still loves me but he can’t do it. He says we don’t work out because we fight. He carried me upstairs to my bed and kissed me good night before he left

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Madhatter920 | 91 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

You're not going to get over him if you keep seeing him. If you want to move on, you're going to have to take time apart. And if you weren't happy in a relationship together, you should move on. Life is short and all the time you're wasting here is time that could be spent with the person you would actually be spending your life with.

Catherine2473

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Kinda hard due to the fact that we live in a small ass town. Yesterday was the first time I saw him in almost two weeks

Answer 2

Catherine2473

Kinda hard due to the fact that we live in a small ass town. Yesterday was the first time I saw him in almost two weeks

Answer 3

Wise4myage | 187 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

If you're goal is to move on, then you need to tell him, because you are sending the wrong message.

Catherine2473

9 d
I want him back
Wise4myage

9 d
Then tell him.
Catherine2473

9 d
I have. But again he says he we don’t work out because we argue
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Wise4myage

9 d
Then tell him he can't have it both ways, Its one way or another.
Catherine2473

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Last night if I remember his words correctly; “I still love you but we don’t workout. I’m sorry but we can’t be together”. I’ve been reflecting over the whole relationship and I do know that I am to blame for some of it. So I’ve been slowing working on some of my issues
Wise4myage

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You should be alone for awhile and focus on your issues.

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Catherine2473

I want him back

Answer 5

Wise4myage

Then tell him.

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Catherine2473

I have. But again he says he we don’t work out because we argue

Answer 7

Wise4myage

Then tell him he can't have it both ways, Its one way or another.

Answer 8

Catherine2473

Last night if I remember his words correctly; “I still love you but we don’t workout. I’m sorry but we can’t be together”. I’ve been reflecting over the whole relationship and I do know that I am to blame for some of it. So I’ve been slowing working on some of my issues

Answer 9

Wise4myage

You should be alone for awhile and focus on your issues.

Answer 10

Mel2021

Xper 3

I would maybe give you both some space as it sounds like he does still love you and have feelings for you but you both may need just time and space away to think things through.
If you don’t mind me asking what caused the breakup?

Catherine2473

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Not at all. He got really mad and started yelling at me. He was swinging in the air and I panicked. I made the mistake of thinking he was going to hit me. I made the bigger mistake of telling a friend who then called the cops. The state police showed up and left after I told them I was alright. His parents were so angry that the cops came. So they pretty much told me I had to leave. I left the next morning and we split that night.
Mel2021

9 d
I’m so sorry that sounds awful I can understand what you mean but you weren’t meant to know. I would say give him some time and space, did you apologise for what you did or have a talk about it?
Catherine2473

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We’ve been texting everyday since the break up. When I went to go get my belongings, I apologized again in person. I’m truly sorry for making that mistake. We haven’t had a chance to really talk about everything in person. But we have talked a lot through text
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Mel2021

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Ah ok I still think it would be good to allow you both the space to think things through as at the moment he’s confused about his feelings and that’s not fair on you
Catherine2473

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Thank you so so much
Mel2021

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It’s no worries at all! I hope it works out 😊

Answer 11

Catherine2473

Not at all. He got really mad and started yelling at me. He was swinging in the air and I panicked. I made the mistake of thinking he was going to hit me. I made the bigger mistake of telling a friend who then called the cops. The state police showed up and left after I told them I was alright. His parents were so angry that the cops came. So they pretty much told me I had to leave. I left the next morning and we split that night.

Answer 12

Mel2021

I’m so sorry that sounds awful I can understand what you mean but you weren’t meant to know. I would say give him some time and space, did you apologise for what you did or have a talk about it?

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Catherine2473

We’ve been texting everyday since the break up. When I went to go get my belongings, I apologized again in person. I’m truly sorry for making that mistake. We haven’t had a chance to really talk about everything in person. But we have talked a lot through text

Answer 14

Mel2021

Ah ok I still think it would be good to allow you both the space to think things through as at the moment he’s confused about his feelings and that’s not fair on you

Answer 15

Catherine2473

Thank you so so much

Answer 16

Mel2021

It’s no worries at all! I hope it works out 😊

Answer 17

In_Trance | 754 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Move on

Answer 18

Ashwin0319

Xper 2

Take some time. If stil feel his love towards you is real. Then take a decision at that time.

Catherine2473

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If you were in his shoes, what would you do? What would you be thinking?
Ashwin0319

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If i still loves you. I will definitely take you out for a sort vacation. Will discuss with you about retaining our relationship. If you are interested too. Will have a perfect love making holiday.

Answer 19

Catherine2473

If you were in his shoes, what would you do? What would you be thinking?

Answer 20

Ashwin0319

If i still loves you. I will definitely take you out for a sort vacation. Will discuss with you about retaining our relationship. If you are interested too. Will have a perfect love making holiday.

Answer 21

Anonymous

Cut him off he got another woman

Catherine2473

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What makes you think that?
Opinion Owner

9 d
A man that loves you would not let you go he would stay and work it out the only time men act like that is when they have someone else on the side

Answer 22

Catherine2473

What makes you think that?

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

A man that loves you would not let you go he would stay and work it out the only time men act like that is when they have someone else on the side

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