I dated a girl briefly and I truly feel she was honest with me vs with her family. Either that or they just never listened to her. I found out through the grape vine that she's pretty much going exactly what she said she was going to do and is able to do it without feeling strapped down. She could have done the same and lived with me but whatever I guess. She goes back to one of her ex's lives with him in her aunts house and pays rent. That's way she doesn't feel trapped. She can dump the boyfriend or decide to not pay the aunt and move out anytime. Lol She's a little too smart for her age, but hey I can't help but be proud of her. She did exactly what we talked about or am I crazy?