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So the best advice for me would be not to date a recently divorced guy?
If you purely want a relationship, then I would say no.However if you go in to it well aware of what you are likely getting in to, then go for it.A decent guy is a decent guy.The best thing is to have a very open discussion about it, then take it from there.Just don’t be surprised if it’s not all sex and can you do my washing n ironing stuff
Yeah I told me I’m ok with cooking cleaning laundry and fcuk? So even after I do all the above will he still just treat me like nothing or could there be a potential of relationship?
Yeah I told him *
@tesscasie I honestly don’t know, everyone is different,I was a twat (likely still am), some people are nice and. Caring, guess a lot depends on circumstances of his divorce, if kids involved, age of him, kids etc
Ok he’s 40 years old divorced guy common law partnership joint custody of two kids ( 10 years relationship) he seems decent but he told me he is dating other women too
Yeah so you will just be another woman unless he wants to commit to a relationship,Obviously sex health is a consideration as well.
He told me he wants to find a girlfriend but he’ll take it slow. Right now I’m away from the country on vacation we met online. So once I’m back should I text him to meet up. My intuition tells me he is dating another woman atm. She is definitely at his place cause he ain’t communicating much with me. Should I text him once back? Also he keeps sending me pics of his children and himself. I can’t understand why he doing like that
@tesscasie a lot depends on how much you are in to him versus availability of other guys etc.For me, him being involved with someone else is a red flag, he is likely just trying out his freedom by fucking around, and if you did commit, would he commit, also who was at fault for the divorce..
All he tells me is he found out that him and his wife aren’t compatible anymore after 10 years. And I don’t understand why he keeps sending me his kids pictures. I’m sure he does the same with other women too. Lately he’s been not texting me much see him online talking to other women. He says he’ll take things slow. by the way his dad and mom were divorced too and living separate lives with their partners. So it’s like history repeats itself.
Since your divorce how long till you got involved with your current girlfriend?
Divorce was finalized after a 18 month separation. Met my girlfriend 4 months after my divorce was final
So do you think I should date a recently divorced guy? He told me things like you can spend time with me until you find someone for yourself? I told him I’m ok with coooking cleaning and fcuk , , do you think if I do the above I’ll have a chance to be in relationship with him? He also told me he is dating other women too. At present im away from the country so I’ll be back in September I do notice he is talking to other women online and meeting up?
Also he send me pics of his kids and himself
Well, you could give it a shot. He may be afraid of a relationship at this point; but if you show you are someone special, he could consider a relationship.
I’m sure there is a woman in his house atm they dating. He isn’t messaging me much. Should I message him now or wait till I get back to the country? I don’t want to loose him to another woman? I’ll be very patient ! Any tips and suggestions would help
Keep messaging him. If you stop, he may think you lost interest. Good you are patient. May need some patience if he has other women.
Great answer! Just on point