If someone told you that they loved you when you tried to end things with them, would you reconsider? (Page 2)

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Normally I would. But we’re on day 4 and this dude said “I love you” after i said we won't work. Thats like next level desperation. Romantic. But just not the way to keep me in such little time of knowing eachother. At least the other guy i let go of said “Please stay. I can change.” Now that was quite tempting. I’m going to miss his voice too. But he was lying about changing. I respect it more when someone stands firmly for what they believe in. It just means we’re not for eachother. No need to lie. I just can't be with anymore “pretenders” #FeelFreeToList

nawtee_me · Answer

the question is, "does their feelings matter if you do not love them?" Answer... Their feelings probably won't change mine... Actions not words...

KeithLane · Answer

I dont believe it would change my mind. If I have decided to end it I have gone through all the scenarios and decided it can't work.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What did the other guy need to change? And why do you think he was lying?

loveslongnails · Answer

"I love you" doesn't work on someone who is already gone in their mind.

Wiredone · Answer

He was definitely desperately trying to keep you from ending it. 4 days is way too early.

dvp724 · Answer

Nah that shit over, you can love me from somewhere else, get over it

TrillXHippy · Answer

Nope I will not because that is crazy. Way too soon

Mehzmeh · Answer

Omg!! Yeah the guy is off his fucking rocker!! Lol. I don’t even want to know, how you met him. Lol

expatPhilippines · Answer

Nope. That never ends well. There will always be mistrust and resentment. You are leaving for a reason. Just leave.

Excel47 · Answer

I may give the person a second chance depending on the level of the situation and find out if the person is pretending or not.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

Before or after stopped laughing?

exitseven · Answer

After 4 days I would say that this guy had issues.

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Depends how I feel about him and why I'm leaving

Freespirit777 · Answer

Yes, I would take this as a desperation attempt.

Guardian45 · Answer

Likely I would give it a second chance

Nahid1707 · Answer

i do agree saying i love you early is bad

TallAnon · Answer

Words don't impress me much

TsAubreyKate · Answer

You know that’s how amber cole got exposed

ChiTownLov · Answer

No. Usually my mind has been made up

lilyanony1 · Answer

4days = Lame!

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