i say good for you to get rid of that person from your life. it is like all things you must take time to grieve we all have to grieve to move on. you take that time to grow as a person and to learn to love yourself and to find out what you really want from another man you may meet.
Eat ice cream and watch my fav shows. steer off dating sites and give up dating entirely as a matter of fact that’s what I’m still doing nearly a decade later
I had a relationship for 3 years once. When that ended, it was cause for celebration as I wasn't happy with the relationship. I spent a lot of my free time doing the things I was wanting to do.
Correct. Spend the time by yourself at your comfort and find out more about yourself. Long relationships not only change you as a person but also make you used to a different lifestyle. Take your time settling into it and do things that you like.
Yes, it takes some getting used to. Even ending a long distance relationship makes the world seem drastically different the next day. I went on a road trip the next day with one of my friends.
When I broke off my engagement with my ex-fiancee, I saw a therapist to help me process my emotions and heal. I also learned how to practice self-care and coping mechanisms.
Last time it happened I downloaded tinder. I wasn't crushed because I was thinking about breaking up for a while now. The relationship was not going well and I was finally free. So I went to enjoy that freedom.
omg! 8 years. that does suck. I'm sorry to hear you lost all that time. hopefully you gained some clarity. what would I do - I think I would do something really challenging like hike the West Coast Trail or run a half marathon
I’ve taken ten years after a break up. Dipped my feet in the dating pool, decided there’s no use for a man in this day in age. Keep to yourself and build your own empire
It is really unfortunate to break up having relationship for 8 years, but as you have fresh break up, be patient and recall the mistakes and reasons for this break up, and resolve, not to repeat again, and search for other partner
Well I felt unlucky, sad. Tried to go outside, walk, indulge in good health activities, watching some good movies etc. talk with new people or friends.
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i say good for you to get rid of that person from your life.
it is like all things you must take time to grieve we all have to grieve to move on. you take that time to grow as a person and to learn to love yourself and to find out what you really want from another man you may meet.
Spend a few years on your own to love yourself it does wonders especially since you started dating him really young
Eat ice cream and watch my fav shows. steer off dating sites and give up dating entirely
as a matter of fact that’s what I’m still doing nearly a decade later
I had a relationship for 3 years once. When that ended, it was cause for celebration as I wasn't happy with the relationship. I spent a lot of my free time doing the things I was wanting to do.
Yess.. exactly what I do.. anddd, also explore sexually and get frisky.. hehe.. 😜😛
I don’t really wanna catch an STD so I’ll stay away from the second part but flirting is fine
Haha.. I didn't mean go bang everyone.. but ya!
Ill use a condom. 😏
Correct. Spend the time by yourself at your comfort and find out more about yourself. Long relationships not only change you as a person but also make you used to a different lifestyle. Take your time settling into it and do things that you like.
Yes, it takes some getting used to. Even ending a long distance relationship makes the world seem drastically different the next day.
I went on a road trip the next day with one of my friends.
A threesome with Ben and Jerry’s, cheesy movies, and friends.
When I broke off my engagement with my ex-fiancee, I saw a therapist to help me process my emotions and heal. I also learned how to practice self-care and coping mechanisms.
Last time it happened I downloaded tinder. I wasn't crushed because I was thinking about breaking up for a while now. The relationship was not going well and I was finally free.
So I went to enjoy that freedom.
omg! 8 years. that does suck. I'm sorry to hear you lost all that time. hopefully you gained some clarity. what would I do - I think I would do something really challenging like hike the West Coast Trail or run a half marathon
I’ve taken ten years after a break up. Dipped my feet in the dating pool, decided there’s no use for a man in this day in age. Keep to yourself and build your own empire
It is really unfortunate to break up having relationship for 8 years, but as you have fresh break up, be patient and recall the mistakes and reasons for this break up, and resolve, not to repeat again, and search for other partner
Well I felt unlucky, sad. Tried to go outside, walk, indulge in good health activities, watching some good movies etc. talk with new people or friends.
Wow I bounce back rather quick yet I don't waste time years. If I see it's not working I usually drop them within weeks to a month
Be open to hanging out with and dating different types of guys until you find one you’re compatible with.
how does it feel t waste 8 years of your life for being stupid? did it really take you 8 years to realize you were in a toxic relatiship?
Try enjoying your Single life and do the things that you would of wanted to do but didn't when you were with him.
Took a deep breath! I guess it wasn’t an ideal relationship.
fill your brain. never leave yourself blank. It's not love in you it's a habit. It's hard to break habits. be patient