Am I a bad friend if I tell the truth? (Page 2)

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I have a friend who cheated on her husband and lied for years. They finally moved out of state but because she was so in love with the boyfriend, she moved back. She convinced her husband that she needed a break and makes it seem like they’re working on a long distance relationship. Her husband literally has no idea that she lives with another man. She trained her kids to lie for her and has her husband thinking she lives with me, which she doesn’t. She lives with the boyfriend.  Her husband came to town a few times to drop things off to her and he always questions why she’s never at my house, no matter what time it is.  she is so miserable with the boyfriend because he treats her so badly- which is probably her Karma. But because she is so deeply in love with him she doesn’t care.  I have started to distance myself from her because I can’t take her lies and the stress from her always venting about the pain the boyfriend causes her.  I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place because whenever the husband comes to town, he will drop things off for them and he’ll ask me questions but I will literally keep it short and go back in the house. Even though I hate that my “friend” is making certain decisions that I don’t agree with, I don’t feel like it’s my place to tell on her.  I just feel like if I tell on her, I’m not a real friend.  Do I betray her and tell the husband or do I mind my business?

Hetty4 · Answer

Tell the poor guy already and put an end to everyone’s miserableness

lalaloveee · Answer

People like to listen to lies that will make them happy, not truths that will hurt.

dustybiker · Answer

There is no way in hell I would lie for someone to cheat. What an arrogant woman.

linka_pat307 · Answer

If you tell them the true and they think you are rude, sis keep telling them the true, they will get used to it

PatriceONeal · Answer

True friends will tell you harsh truths to help you improve or succeed. Fake friends will let you do whatever you want becuase they don't care about you.

Jhunitor · Answer

I would tell the husband. She made you her associate in crimes and you should not force yourself to lie for her.

kevypatyy7 · Answer

I would blow the whistle I really want heaven so God will understand I am helpless

boobliker · Answer

can you ask her why? without spilling the beans that is?

Anonymous · Answer

Let me guess... She's a white woman, right?

shortster · Answer

Honesty is the best policy

Becky316 · Answer

Tell the husband

User3191989 · Answer

yes, you tell him

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