I'm a naturally lonely person. I'm pretty shy as far as going up to someone and talking to them from across the room but I do talk to people. I honestly don't have any friends. I know people and we are pals but I don't really have any friends.
My best friend of 10 years (basically my brother) just decided to ditch me for more popular people. I have never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out in 8th grade and she accepted but ended up using the movie tickets with someone else and didn't tell me. that pretty much stopped my dating confidence right there. I didn't even go to prom.
I'm not really attracted to "hot" girls. I just wish there was ONE nice girl that I knew of that didn't whore herself around or act ridiculous, or never shower. I know I'm not a good looking person and I'm not athletic and I'm actually in a poor family but I am very lonely.
My best friend is a 70 year old man that I help around his workshop. that's pretty pathetic. I don't listen to modern music. I don't have a Facebook. I don't even watch TV that often. All I do is read art books, history books, build computers and practice artistry. I have no one to talk to and I am a very lonely person. I am literally my best friend along with my dog. I'm not just anti-social but I don't fit in with any group of folks.
I go days without actually speaking to anyone. When I find someone to talk to they seem interested but then they start looking down at their phones or they have parties to go to etc.
I need advice on finding a girl that won't stare me down for being an unattractive geek that hasn't any money or social life. ha ha I might as well as for a pot of gold.
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well you're 18 in college... you have a good 3 or 4 years of college ahead of you. you can start with your classes... people in college act much differently then in high school, especially the upper classmen. I suggest you start of talking to girls in your class! ask for some help or if you see someone struggling try to help them out.. seriously classes are the best way to meet girls. that and going to events and joining clubs. for example this weekend a sorority as my university had a $5 car wash for charity. so I went there and got my car washed. I couldn't even get any of my friends to go as wingmen (I hate that..) buti really wanted to go (and my car did need a wash) so I just went there by myself... it was intimidating at first, I felt uncomfortable, and it didn't go as smooth as I hoped it would but I put myself out there and I did talk to one girl there for a bit and ended up adding her on Facebook. though I don't know if ill see her again, it was a positive experience..
so there you have it, be active on campus, be willing to step outside your comfort zone, and... just do it!0