Iv'e been with my boyfriend for close to a year, long story short I have commitnent issues. So saying the words 'i love you' were really hard for me, he waited a month or 2 for me to say it back after he said it. he and I got really close and intimate in a short time and I got attached. He's been a terriable boyfriend lately (( past few months)) I figured if I stayed and tried to make things better it would make us like we use to be. He's been in my life for many years previous to us getting together, so letting go is not easy in any way. One of the main reasons I need to end things is cause I deserve better, and he needs to relize that I'm hopeing breaking things off for a wile will make him relize that. SO any tips on ending things with someone you fell hard for? the only way I can think of wording it is saying 'f*** you I'm done' GUYS how would you react to your girlfriend saying that? would you try and ask her what's wrong or just say ok? I know he'e going to try and get me back if I end things I don't think he could really let me go fully. any tips?
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It doesn't sound like you guys don't have much of a relationship after a year. I wasn't aware there are girls out there that don't have to at least hear their boyfriends voice everyday. OK if you guys are in a fight I understand but you guys need to enjoy spending more time together it sounds like. I've known a few guys that just can't see or talk to the same chick everyday. They can't even deal with being committed. It sounds like your relationship is based on physical attractiveness. I bet he has nice looks considering yours. Your pretty young though so maybe your just realizing you want more mental stimulation and contact out of a relationship. GL though breakups are hard :[0