I've been seeing a lot of questions lately about getting back together with exs. I myself recently went trhough a break -up and have thought if we should get back together. Although, I'm confussed and hurting, I also realize that he and I need some distance and time apart to heal some battle wounds. I know that we still have a strong connection and I could see myself with him again.
A freind of mine dated a guy in college, they broke up, got back together a few years later, broke up and got back together and are now happily married with 3 kids. As I typed that I realized that I have another friend that went through the same thing. I realize that these stories are not the norm and most break-ups leave heartache and devistation in its wake.
So, I have to ask, would you get back together with your ex, is it worth the risk? If you have strong feelings and love for a person and you break-up, where do your feelings go? Can you really get over a person you once thought you'd love forever?
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I loved my ex absolutely unconditionally and there is nothing I wouldn't have done for her. She left me and basically kicked me to the curb and never spoke to me again. She didn't think it through at all and acted quite irrationally. She partied and slept around all summer and "lived it up".. Now I am bumping into her everywhere I go and she's with her new boyfriend. I promise he can't give her what I've given her or is anywhere near the boyfriend I was. So to me it screams that she misses me and regrets leaving me, since she's always at the places she knows I go. It's not coincidence. She is very immature and hasn't handled this well at all and the lack of closure killed me for months and months. I am assuming that she will show up some place I am with a friend or friends to try and engage in a conversation with me, but I won't hold my breath. I am no saint in this either considering I have sent her numerous drunk angry and emotional emails. That could have all been avoided had she not ignored me all that time. At this point in time I'd never entertain getting back with my ex unless she did some serious growing up. I never felt appreciated or loved or cared for. She meant the absolute world to me and I still cannot process how she's moved on so fast and is already in a relationship. She said I was "forever" and now this...0
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