Well I called my ex up, got her voice mail. I said something like, "just wanted to chat for a minute, call me back if you want. ttyl." She called back like 5 min later and said she was in the shower. Sounded happy to hear from me, who knows? she said she had something to do when I asked her out for later that day. You may say it was bs, but it was actually something I knew about before, I just forgot it was that day. Mind is a little occupied, Ah well. So I chit chatted for a minute, I didn't offer up anything or ask her what was going on but she told me what she did during the day. I said enjoy your night, maybe we can do it next time. She said OK. Thoughts?
Asked her out again, what do you think?
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I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT AGAIN. IM A WOMAN AND MY OPINION ON THAT IS IF A WOMAN GIVES IN TO HER EX WHENEVER HE DECIDES TO CONTACT HIS EX, SHE COMES OFF TO BE DESPERATE TO THE EX. EX'S WILL HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR A WOMAN ALSO. ANOTHER THING SHE COULD STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU AND IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR HER TO GO OUT WITH YOU AT THIS TIME AGAIN. NO WOMAN WANTS TO BE HURT. MAYBE SHE IS MAKING SURE OF THINGS SO SHE MAKES THE RIGHT CHOICE. (PEOPLE VALUE THE THINGS THEY WORKED FOR. THINGS THAT COME EASY DONT HAVE MUCH VALUE).
SO YES IF YOU STILL HAVE STRONG FEELINGS FOR HER AND ITS NOT JELOUSY YOU ASKED HER OUT AGAIN, THEN DONT GIVE UP. SHE NEVER TOLD YOU NO ABOUT NEXT TIME.
HOPE I HELPED SOME WITH MY ADVICE
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