I thought I was over him; but I keep having dreams about him! I keep dreaming us getting back together, and they seem so real! When I wake up it makes me sad because we never actually got back together. I don't understand, I'm pretty well over him and have moved on with my life..
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Dreaming about him doesn't mean you miss him or want him as you said you have moved on. There is just unfinished business that you may or may not realize you have with him. I also had lots of dreams of my ex, us just hanging out, even hanging out with his new girlfriend at the time. We were friends at the time, but over time I realized there were things about how we ended that I didn't get over yet. So I basically let him have it about how I felt one day and honestly the dreams stopped completely.
Is there something you feel like you need to say to him? Or hurt you are still holding on too? Once you release that the dreams should stop.0