My ex girlfriend dumped me because she no longer wants to be in a relationship. (There was also someone else/she cheated). I've implemented NC for the pass 25 days and have been recovering. On day 19th, I kind of sent her a funny picture to which she responded very excitedly with a question (which I ignored ..yea kind of childish).
So I resumed NC and just today she started sending me random emails about things we talked about some time ago. Just really irrelevant random things to which she asks how I feel about it and etc... From what I gather, she is trying to get a dialogue started between us by emailing me these random things which a question attached to them. What are your thoughts, and should I respond to these emails? (I do want her back, but only on her terms.)
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I feel that nothing you could have done to force her to cheat. If she felt that you were a bad boyfriend to her, then she could have ended things and then be with someone else.
If you continue to contact her, then it will set you back and you will never move on. To make someone come back to you, you have to be willing to lose them 100%. If you guys get back together now, it won't work out as there was a reason why you broke up to beginning with. You can't break up and get back together and expect everything to work out. Problems don't just disappear just because you were apart for a month.
Block her email and/or don't read them. Nothing good can come from it...especially not when you're trying to heal.1