I'm really hoping this is not the case because lately these are the type of guys who are try to get with me and of course, naturally, as a female who likes men, I can't help but be attracted! The more 10/10 type guys I date, the more I'm starting to realize a similar pattern of behavior they all seem to share. 10/10 meaning really gorgeous guys with great bodies who know they are cute and have a lot of females (and sometimes males lol) giving them attention! What really confirmed these ideas is one of my very hot, 10/10 type friends and listening to what he said. Now, I could never date him after knowing him so well lol but anyway he was saying "Because I'm cute, I know I could get other girls." He was trying to get this girl's number even though he has a girlfriend because he feels that his girlfriend may have cheated on him. I'm starting to get really cautious about dating guys who are really hot because it seems like most of them are extremely arrogant and tend to be a**holes because they think they can use their looks to get out of any and everything. I'm also noticing that a lot of gorgeous guys with great bodies are incomplete men. By my definition, an incomplete man is a man who only possesses half or of the traits necessary in order to build a certain type of relationship and take care of someone's heart. I'm starting to notice that a lot of hot guys have it together when it comes to looks, but when it comes to personality, they seem to be lacking. For some, I kind of think maybe it's because they're so used to getting praised for their looks that now they just rely on them instead of taking it to the next level. I hope that's not the case because I love me some hot guys! Yet I refuse to date a guy who is gorgeous and a 10/10 when it comes to looks but is lacking with personality.
What is your opinion on this topic? Girls, any similar experiences?
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We live in a very superficial society. People who are born attractive usually have less need to use their brain, this in turn leads to them not having to think inwardly. This in turn leads them to be more prone to using people to reach their own needs, worry about their own satisfaction without any regards to others, etc. Why should they? They can almost always get what they want, if not from one sucker, another one that comes along, and trust me, there is ALWAYS someone who will come along.
To be extremely handsome/beautiful and at the same time possess a strong self-awareness is fairly rare, but is usually found in people who have had good upbringing, and know that their looks should not be their crutch. If it's any consolation, I know of one such young lady, and she's a good friend of mine. Having been overweight for most of her life, she experienced how tough life could be for someone who wasn't considered physically attractive. After losing weight and becoming attractive to many guys, she never lost sight of what really mattered and that was not allowing your looks to take front seat over your mind.
But to answer your question, you like what it is that you like, and you shouldn't be ashamed of it. A good looking guy is a good looking guy, but, what you CAN control, is your ability to read deeper into the person. Guys can be good liars but when you have an agenda, and plan on getting something from someone (whatever it may be), there IS a way to tell, there will always be tell-tale signs. One simply has to know what the person's base values are. Such as are they self-sacrificing? Do they help people when it's not only just CONVENIENT to them? Look deeper.2