I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. He has been contacting me every day saying he doesn't want to give up on us and will change whatever needs to change.
I am torn whether to give him another chance. I am not afraid to be alone and I can easily get a date, I just feel like I am never going to fall out of love with him. I feel this pull back to him. I miss SO much. The seconds drag on without him.
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Honestly, people don't change no matter how hard they tried. I gave my ex a second chance when he broke my heart over a year ago. We got back together and moved in. Less than a year later, he broke my heart again. It was the same thing, but the situation was different. He gave up on us the first time because it was too hard to try. The second time, he said he has learned to "accept" things and that he doesn't feel like trying to improve our relationship and is okay with how we were...acting as roommates. People don't change and this was over something that could easily have been fixed for us.
You will fall out of love if you allow yourself the chance to do so and to distance yourself from him. You might always love him, but you will eventually not be "in" love with him. I will always love my ex, but after almost half a year apart, I know that my feelings for him has changed. I used to love him so much and I miss him a lot, but I know that I can live without him.0