Would you rather cheat or be cheated on?

I'd rather be cheated on cause I hate cheaters and I can't even imagine what it must feel like.

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if you'd rather cheat, you're a selfishass person.

props to those who'd rather get cheated on.
one star, really?

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  • I HAVE been cheated on and I would say I would like to experience the other side of the situation but if I was with a girl I cared about, I wouldn't think about cheating. However, if I had my time back with the girl who cheated on me, I would've been frolicking through greener pastures.

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What Girls Said 20

  • Why not put on the Poll -

    Cheat (WRONG ANSWER)

    Be Cheated (Right answer)

    Since you're so righteous over hypothetical situations *rolling eyes*

    Most of the people who said they would cheat will probably never do it in real life it's damn hypothetical, gun to head, situation Stop taking your own question so seriously.

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  • what a lovely question. :p

    i can't cheat, just impossible for me, so I guess I'd get cheated on.

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  • Without a doubt be cheated on. I would never EVER cheat. It would tear me up so much, it wouldn't be worth it at all. At least if I'm cheated on I wouldn't be able to trust the person, if I cheated I wouldn't be able to trust myself. If I can't trust anyone else, at least I can trust myself. I've been cheated on and I agree with this even more now.

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    • i'm sorry that happened to you. but at least you didn't turn into a cheater too, like some people here seem to have done.

    • Never will I be a cheater. I'd rather break up with the person than cheat.

    • that's very good.

  • hmm.. I don't like your choices sir. (:|)

    If I cheat, I'll feel guilty. If I get cheated on, I'll feel disappointed. Guilt lasts longer than disappointment (to me anyways), so I'd rather feel disappointed for a while than guilty for a long while.

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  • I've cheated. I'd rather cheat than be cheated on. My preference would be neither though. I've only cheated while extremely drunk, and when my boyfriend was being a total ass hole to me. But really there's no reason for not being faithful.

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  • cheated on,cheating disgusts me and well I can get rid of a cheating boyfriend,i can't get rid of my conscience

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  • cheating could be fun, exciting, forbidden

    getting cheated on ... that would just suck all-around

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    • maybe in a sex story it could, but would it in real life? you wouldn't think of how you'd be hurting the person you love?

    • having had my heart broken time after time... I don't have a lot of hope that I would ever be in a relationship amazing enough that I would rather be cheated on than cheat

    • that's pretty f***ed up...

  • in no way shape or form am I a shelfish ass but I would rather cheat. I never want to hurt anyone so before I cheat I would break things off with the guy. I don't want to be cheated on because I don't want my heart broken either

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    • then its selfish. you'd rather hurt than be hurt.

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    • maybe but you would rather get your heart broken than to hurt someone else? I don't know anyone who would prefer to get their heart broken lol

    • look at these answers, a lot of people would.

      and I've had it broken just a few months ago, I can take it.

  • i'd rather be cheated on. I could never hurt the one I love like that. I'd rather feel the pain, not give it.

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  • I'd rather get cheated on, I know how to deal with my own hurting, I would rather I get hurt than them.

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  • Neither. if I really like and respect a guy I wouldn't. And if he does that will be the end of the line for him.

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    • ok good. but that's not the point.

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    • Ok.. Been. Cheated on and it hurts too much so I pick cheat!

      And why the down votes peeps?

    • that's not coo, that's why.

  • Cheated on...I can't imagine hurting someone like that

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  • Cheated on.

    Clear conscience + I'm a bit of a masochist D:

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  • i don't even like thinking about cheating on my man, It would kill me. So I chose being cheated on

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  • Be cheated on because I would never cheat on someone.

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  • Cheated on.

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  • be cheated on I'm not trying to have a case of sumthing just sayin

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  • Neither...

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    • come on, don't do that to me.

      would it hurt you more to cheat or be cheated on?

      would it feel the same either way?

    • I actually have no idea... probably the same either way , don't want you to call me selfish lol :)

    • i don't want to call you that either...

  • how about neither? lol.

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    • how about just pick one or don't answer?

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    • i'm sorry you p*ss yourself off so much.

    • whatever you say...

  • I rather cheat...sorry,just being honest...and I'm ready to get downvote...

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What Guys Said 26

  • I would rather be cheated on because I know I haven't done any wrong besides the fact that she lost interest in me and that's why she did it. All in all I'm still in the clear. Guess she didn't feel the same. I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else, because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate.

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  • I would rather be cheated on. I just can't imagine cheating on a girl because I would not be able to live with all that guilt and selfishness. I would rather be cheated on because then I know not to waste my time anymore on a relationship which involved dishonesty, sneakiness, heartache and a lack of trust

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  • I'd rather cheat, because that would mean I'm no longer emotionally invested in my partner. If she cheated on me, I'd still like her and be emotionally devastated.

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  • Cheated on.

    It would make the ego-crushing dream-shattering speech I'd give her almost worth it.

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  • i would rather be cheated on because I hate cheaters and if I cheated on a girl then I would hate myself

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  • Be cheated on. I'd much prefer to not live with the possible guilt of betraying someone in that way.

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  • cheated on... what comes around goes around... and you can just find someone new without having to feel guilty

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  • i would rather go and stab myself in the neck to be completely honest.

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    • lolol

    • seriously, if you don't want to be with someone. break the f*** up with them. it's not that hard, especially if you obviously don't love them. why tear them to shreds just so you can get laid?

    • yup yup.

  • f*** lame questions like this :| both p*ss me off. Soo... blah

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  • Cheated on... I couldn't even think about cheating on the girl I love.

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  • Obviously cheat: Would you rather be humilliated by a girl, than looking like an asswhole but still scoring?..with two girls?

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    • be humiliated. I wouldn't feel humiliated tho, I'd just leave her.

  • Neither but if it happened it wouldn't be the Apocalyps.

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  • Cheat, All the way lol

    I cheat anyways. Same girl gets old after a while.

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  • Is there a neither option? Lol, both would suck. As a cheater, I'd feel a tremendous amount of overwhelming guilt, and as the latter, I'd feel a tremendous amount of overwhelming heartbreak. Everyone loses either way...

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  • For me its not called cheating. its called..."NEXT?"

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  • be cheated on, at least it would give me a relationship which I have never had

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  • Cheated on-

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  • Cheated on

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  • b for sure

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  • Be single...

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