My boyfriend and I broke up because I thought another guy was cute, & he said I had wandering eyes. He asked me what I thought & I didn't want to lie to him. It's not like I wanted this random guy, I just thought he was attractive. He said a single girl has those thoughts, and I wasn't single. He's extremely sensitive and the most difficult person to deal with but I love him.
On the other hand, there's this other guy I started talking to after my boyfriend and I broke up. He's so sweet and mature. He makes me feel amazing and even though we haven't spent much time together I feel at ease and comfortable with him. The only problem is he's in the army (ROTC) and I don't see much of him. Also, he and I are moving really fast and I prefer to take things slow.
Also, I don't know if my ex and I are going to get back together. He acts like he hates me, but then acts like we're still dating and its confusing. I try to keep my distance from him & when I spend time with the new guy, I feel like I'm cheating, even though I'm single, and we both agreed we could see other people. I'm so confused and this will be pretty hard, especially since my boyfriend followed me to college so I'll always see him. Any advice?
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He should just get over it. Finding someone else attractive is only natural, there's nothing wrong with it.1