If my ex suffered as much as me (if not more) then why doesn't she text or comeback?

[bloosk]

[Anonymous]

You toyed with her emotions and bragged about the new girls you were seeing to get an emotion out of her.. she didn’t appreciate it

[bloosk]

No i didn't?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, sorry.. then I’m not sure

[bloosk]

Im wondering how long it took her to get over me, I feel like I didn't matter at all

[Opinion Owner]

If someone pisses me off, I go no contact.. it doesn’t matter how long it takes for me to get over them. When I’m done, I’m done. I have lots of patience and I eventually follow my head more than my heart for my own well being.

On that note, I’ve gone no contact with someone and it took 3 years to get them truly off my mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Reading your comments, you’re assuming she’s sleeping around and if that were the case, you wouldn’t want her back. Question: did you sleep around while you two were going on and off with eachother? And if so, do you know or think she knew about it?

[bloosk]

I couldn't. I honestly cared. She did once. I just couldn't do it.

She didn't want to know. because it would have hurt her, I know they much

[bloosk]

How can you go from loving someone to once you're done you're done

[Opinion Owner]

Easy

[bloosk]

So women don't actually love.

[Opinion Owner]

No I love him but I’m done

[Opinion Owner]

I wish him the best. But we’re no good for eachother

[bloosk]

That's literally the definition of a failure. My grandparents spent 50 years together. My grandma definitely did not treat him like that

[Opinion Owner]

Back in the day was different. My grandparents too, 50 years together.

The dating scene in this generation sucks

[Opinion Owner]

And the man you’re asking about sucks too

[bloosk]

What man?

[Opinion Owner]

The one I’m referring to

[bloosk]

Oh, what did he do?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn’t matter, that’s not the point

[bloosk]

Oh.. yeah well we did fight a ton. But I would never marry her. She's just a crazy midshark now I think.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah we fought a ton too and we only knew eachother for a year lol

[Opinion Owner]

Can you stop using that term and making accusations. Its annoying

[bloosk]

She did that once (i think) before we split, and i knew it was over right then. But she said she just kissed him, but ee all kmow there's more. She actually said I didn't need to know everything, lol.

We also only knew each other for a year

[Opinion Owner]

I thought I read you knew eachother for FOUR years

[bloosk]

1 and a couple months

[Opinion Owner]

Funny because we are both narcissists too and you mentioned she was flirty which bothers you. That’s why he was so mean to me. How’d y’all meet?

[Opinion Owner]

Or I may have confused you with someone else who was talking about a similar situation

[bloosk]

That was me. We lived in the same building. She immediately got attracted and latched on and the rest is history.

Narcissim might explain the "once I'm done with them you're done with them" attitude?

[Opinion Owner]

Not necessarily. Like I said, we weren’t good for eachother. We’re both immature I think is the problem. But I can’t really feel anymore so it’s easy to let go

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t admit that in real life though..

[bloosk]

You don't admit what? And you don't feel. for. him?

[Opinion Owner]

That I can cut someone off and not look back. And I shouldn’t feel for him. We were so bad for eachother because we kept testing eachother and making eachother jealous and he embarrassed me on multiple occasions like lashed out on me in front of everyone. I’m not sure if I’m just jaded or what but I’m not trying to get too deep into thoughts about how I feel because it was toxic

[Opinion Owner]

He’s a player.. but I actually felt like he just wanted to own me. We weren’t even in a relationship. That’s not love

[bloosk]

Sound similar except she did sleep with someone during a break. I didn't commit because I was sure of what she is. But I don't know. What was it then if not love?

[Opinion Owner]

Mid shark? Meaning she’s a white girl who likes black guys or just non white guys.. lol I’m a white girl and I’m not attracted to white guys either lol..

I’ve also been receiving anonymous texts from random numbers just trolling me.. I either troll back depending on my mood or just block them. Not cool!

[Opinion Owner]

I think it’s him

[Opinion Owner]

Wel he thought I met someone because he kept questioning me about it and I wouldn’t tell him because it wasn’t any of his business so that’s when he started partying hard and sleeping around

[Opinion Owner]

It may have been love if you’re still thinking about her. I did and do love him but I don’t wanna deal with it anymore

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe that’s how she feels since our situation is quite similar

[bloosk]

She blocks immediately now. I can search her on Facebook but not add as a friend. I don't know why. I know she couldn't just go away. She would sit on my lap and say that she, "wants to. die with me and have my fucking kids".

I don't know how a gil could just walk from that and not feel immense pain

[Opinion Owner]

I said some crazy stuff like that all the time but I didn’t really mean it. I was playful about it

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she wasn’t serious but just messed with yiur mind for her own entertainment lol

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds cruel ik.. maybe she’s no good for you. Why do you want her?

[bloosk]

I felt like qhat were had was forever. I haven't felt that before. Sounds gay but I thought we couldn't break up, like we were.. "meant to be". Fuckin crock of. shit.

I noticed her getting the stare when blacks were around, and I knew it was over.

She did say however that after she went on 2 dates she couldn't see herself with one. Who knows if that's true.

[bloosk]

No she meant it. At least I know she's psychopathic if she could say it so calmly and not be serious about it.

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t help but giggle.. next time don’t fall so hard so soon. I’m sorry you’re in pain though.. let her go. You deserve to be happy. But I really don’t feel like I’m entitled to give advice about relationships because I’m a hott mess lol

[bloosk]

What are you giggling about?

[Opinion Owner]

Umm my apologies.. I need to be more sensitive

[bloosk]

That's not what I asked

[Anonymous]

Give it a rest, dude. It is just pathetic now.

[bloosk]

You women are

[Anonymous]

She has moved on, and you need to do the same.

[bloosk]

I'm sure it's not that simple.

[bloosk]

Why are you hanging out here anyway

[Opinion Owner]

I have the right to be here just as much as anybody else does.

[Lokiion]

It’s pretty simple

[bloosk]

I didn't think people did that. They just left, after all the promiese she made and words she spoke.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Because she doesn't want to

[bloosk]

She plays games. She's done that but she didn't really felt that way

[BonzoInBitburg]

Playing games is a good reason to say goodbye to her. Block her. You don't want a text from someone like that

[bloosk]

I don't know if I would take her back anyway. I did somethings, things left unsaid, about i had feelings for her that I regret saying a lot of hurtful stuff that had bad effects on her. But after I said them, I left.

I definitely don't want to be the guy that's trying to get her back while she's out getting her back blown out