4 months of. no contact then I reached out and blocking me everytime. How do they do this after a real relationship?

[bloosk]

[OneViewpoint]

Because they are done and trying to move on and you keep trying to revive a relationship that is over. Take a hint.

[bloosk]

This has happened more than once now. Before she came back, she couldn't stay away.

[OneViewpoint]

Maybe now she's done. Maybe she met someone else.

[bloosk]

I don't know man, i really don't. I don't believe she doesn't still have feelings, I know she does

[MK1997]

You fell hard, she didn't care much. Some people are like that. Fuck her.

[bloosk]

... no I'm not sure she was doing that. I know what you mean. This was definitely a little bit more.

[katiesmuff]

Real easy just push the block button and "BLAM" your blocked!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe you were a piece of shit

[bloosk]

I definitely was a little bit but we both were. I see where I went wrong now, I want to make things right

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You no longer get to make that call. Suck it up, buttercup

[bloosk]

And why can't I?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She has to want you to fix it in order for it to happen. Clearly she doesn’t think you’re worth it anymore, so no matter what you want you can’t do anything without her permission

[bloosk]

I know. How do I get her back?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You don’t. You move on like she clearly has. You accept the end.

[bloosk]

I don't know, I feel a whisper telling me not to accept that

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s your ego and the fact that you want a redo to prove you’re not the piece of shit you were. You need to accept your lack of control here

[bloosk]

She's done this before. She's tried but always came back

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then just sit and wait rather than trying to force it.

[bloosk]

Iys been 4 months. I'm not sure how much longer she would need

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re 100% confident she’ll come back then forcing it is not going to make it happen sooner, it’ll only keep her away longer

[bloosk]

I don't know man thianone feels. weird.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Well, weird happens. Deal with it or risk making everything worse

[bloosk]

Deal with what? Her going no contact?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, it’s not hard to ignore someone while they ignore you

[bloosk]

I think she's just hoping i go away but I don't know. Something just tells. me that's not true. Something tells me she's not done, to pursue

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, your bruised ego is a sore loser

[bloosk]

No.. it's not

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes it is, and I’m not talking about this anymore

[bloosk]

Neither of us know what it is

[Anonymous]

Is this a gay thing?
Yuck