Update on situation of Him?

[milkicow]

He still acting up, not the first time he set my ''Bedtime." We were watching the original Harry Potter movie, and it was 2 hours long So after i wanted to split. I said my good-byes and gave my affection and dipped after multiple tries of letting him know I needed a break. I received 30 minutes of alone time before he wanted me back, and I knew he wanted to chill more.

As we were hanging out in world on chat, we had fun laughing and talking. He knocked out, and I stayed for another 2 hours before his headset died and he was offline. So when I world-hopped , it was 3 am at this point, and I made the mistake of having black tea with lots of caffeine, which made me energetic and awake. he requested an invite, and I obliged, and he wa pissed. Why are you up so late, and this is why your going to be tired all day? My response was, "It was only for tonight." Nothing from him after, and he went downstairs to find other people, and I ditched for not being herd and respected.

After a hour still being online, I finally felt tired and found a world and got off after knocking out. Only to be awakened to gifs of Cinderella with bags under her eyes and another just the same. along with text like

"Imagine bringing you here to Canada just for you to sleep all day.'''

"Not smart to talk to in any way has sleeping issues without even having any income, just a total pile of shit.'

"Well, ima just assume your cheating and give you a proper reaction."

"Got trouble now game-playing bitch.''

I'd say sorry, but I don't think I should this time.''

Im just letting it run its course; he won't apologize, and I'm not a kid; he cheats; he cheats; he won't message me anymore; that's fine; also, I've been waiting for him to break it. He's a narccist, and I don't want to give him the pleasure of a breakup on my hands and give him the pitty card to play other people. Be petty

[Oliverlogan263]

It sounds like you're dealing with some serious drama with your guy, and I can totally understand why you're just letting it play out instead of trying to fix things. Dude's got some major issues if he's tripping on you like that - the controlling behavior, the nasty texts, all of it. You don't deserve to be treated that way.

It's smart of you to not fall for the pity card or get roped into a breakup on his terms. Narcissists always wanna play the victim, and you're totally right to not give him that satisfaction. Better to just let him figure his own stuff out while you focus on yourself.

You seem really level-headed about the whole situation, which is impressive. A lot of girls would probably get really worked up over that kind of drama, but you're just letting it run its course. I respect that a lot.

Hang in there, girl. Don't let this dude get you down. You got this - just keep doing your thing and don't give him the reaction he's looking for. Sending positive vibes your way!

[Anonymous]

That sounds like a good idea.