I was wondering, is getting back together with an ex after almost a year of not speaking suppose to be smooth. Is it suppose to be like dating anyone else? Does the "you either feel it or you don't rule apply to an ex or should you let time pass and give those feelings and emotions a chance to come back? What do people think?
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Its definitely not suppose to be easy. Its not a new relationship, its an old relationship with old feelings and hurt coming back up to surface. I think that if you haven't missed them since or can live without them then you should just leave it be. An ex is an ex for a reason, give someone else a chance unless you really want to make things work with them and they're willing to work for that as well. Its definitely something that will take a lot of effort and time on BOTH parts. I'm assuming that you have issues you both need to work on together so I suggest you don't jump into anything right away and just take baby steps towards it.0