OK, don't judge here--- I am married. guy friend is married. We are both in our thirties. We have known each other for 4 yrs. Has always been a little "tension" there. we would text occasionally- purely innocent stuff. Recently reconnected and it got HOT -- FAST! he hasn't even been married a year. we had plans to meet and ...you know. Series of mishaps and delays ensued (both of us) I was frustrated , and became a little reactive-- over texting. He got pissed because I broke our "agreement" that I would not text repeatedly if he did not respond, because it meant he could not or did not have phone. I apologized but now he's not speaking to me! WTF? By the way. love my husband, but the spark is gone. I do want my friend back - why is he being such a baby?
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He's not being a baby...not that I condone what either of you attempted to do...but, he apparently did not want to take needless chances of getting caught by his wife, so he laid down some ground rules to help avoid sticky situations which might tip his wife off that he was fooling around behind her back. When you totally ignored one of his rules by texting him too much, you set off a HUGE red flag in his head that you could NOT be trusted to be discrete. He sees danger with you and you're not worth the aggravation to him. (Not trying to be mean, just being honest.) He apparently only wants a lay...a good time, not a whole bunch of drama. So unfortunately, your lack of judgement and prudence ruined your chance of hooking up with him. Perhaps it's a blessing in disguise, maybe you should go try to make things work with your hubby instead...a man that TRULY loves you for more than just a lay.0