No actual question here. Instead, a word of advice. Who am I to be giving advice? Well I'm just someone who is learning from a mistake, so I thought I'd share it before you make the same one.
About a year ago I started dating a girl, let's call her Ms. X. We only dated for 3 months, but she was amazing. So good to me. The only problem was I was still hung up on my ex, Ms. Y, who had broken my heart almost a year prior to me meeting Ms. X. I was seriously trying to move on with my life, and I genuinely cared about this girl, she wasn't a rebound. But after about 3 months her and I agreed I wasn't ready for a relationship, and we broke up. About a month later, I coincidentally ran into Ms. Y, and we got to talking and a few weeks later we got back together after being apart for 14 months. The first time we dated she was the girl of my dreams. This time around, she treated me like absolute worthless sh*t for 3 months before we broke up.
Me and Ms. X broke up in January, and yet here I am in October missing her. Bad. The problem was I didn't appreciate her fully at the time I was with her. I didn't give her my full heart. And my advice? Guys, if you have a girl (or a guy), and girls, if you have a guy (or a girl), who treats you good, who makes you happy, who you enjoy being around, who you have fun with, who you laugh with, who you care about, then appreciate them every moment. Show them you appreciate them, tell them you appreciate them. Be good to them. Don't be looking for the next best thing, because the grass is not always greener on the other side. If you take proper care of the grass you already have, it will be greener than any other. Don't make the same mistake I have. Be good to the one you're with. You are one of the lucky ones.
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"Guys, if you have a girl (or a guy), and girls, if you have a guy (or a girl), who treats you good, who makes you happy, who you enjoy being around, who you have fun with, who you laugh with, who you care about, then appreciate them every moment. Show them you appreciate them, tell them you appreciate them. Be good to them."
Words to live by... If only more guys thought like you instead of falling back on the "well I guess I'll just be a jerk now" idea. I always try to be good to my boyfriends, because I hope that they will return the favor and treat me well too. However, some people will still treat you like crap regardless. And unfortunately it makes some good guys/girls go bad. But there's a better solution... kick them to the curb and wait for somebody who will treat you as well as you treat them! I finally have a wonderful boyfriend who treats me well. And because of that we get along great and we make each other happy. I appreciate every single second I have with him :)
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