My ex wants to be friends again, even tho the first time failed because I still had feelings for him. I had talked to him once at a party, then ignored him. He then friend requested me on Facebook and I decided to chat with him. It was nice and he told me that he didn't want me to think of him as another jerk in my life. I gave him little hints that he was still important to me, and he said things like thanks, I admit I appreciated the good and bad times between us. Well my question is should I remain his friend or not?
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unfortunately going into this situation with the idea that maybe you could get him back will be the exact thing that keeps him from coming back. You can't change his mind and he's made up his mind. you will spend all this time talking with him and reminicing about that time you guys got caught in the rain and had to run home in bare feet and he'll spend it going "yeah that was great...so what are you doing?" and it's only going to dig the knife deeper. You're gonna remember when he was in love with you and how he talked to you then...it won't be that way. Until you can honestly look back and say yeah those times were great but now we're just friends. I wouldn't do it. it's only going to hurt you to be in love alone with this guy with him treating you as a friend.0