My first love and I broke up over a year ago, we recently started talking again and we started hanging out again.
I've been so happy lately because I couldn't picture my life without him so when we finally patched things up I was ecstatic.
The thing is he has a new girlfriend, they have only been dating for 5 months but they already live together. He told me how much he still cared for me and how much he still wanted me to be in his life, and then eventually after a few months of just hanging out we slept together.
The next morning I felt horrible that he cheated on his girlfriend with me but I also felt really happy because I got to be with him again.
The next week we were texting and I said "so what are you doing" and he said "nothing, just making some plans" and I said "plans for what" he said "the wedding" I said "who's?" and he said "me and my girls"...
WHAT THE f*** JUST HAPPENED!? I completely broke down and didn't even know what to say, I feel so used and disgusted with myself.
I don't know what to do, my mind is a complete mess.
Did I really mean absolutely nothing to him?
and if he really did love this girl, why would he do that to her?
I really just need some incite to this whole mess
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Waste of time figuring out why bad people are bad; it doesn't make them better. What we know is that he is either unwilling or unable to invest in a relationship with anyone, so relationship-wise, he's probably a bad bet.
Cut him loose.1