So I was dating this guy and while we were dating he randomly broke up with me and then we got back together. Then he cheated on me and we got back together. I just broke up with him because I made plans with other guys and I didn't want to hurt him the same way he hurt me. I know that once I see him again everything will all come rushing back and I'll want to be back with him. I miss him already. I want to tell him this but I just can't. I don't know what to do. My. Friends say I deserve better and I agree but he makes me happy. Should I stay broken up with him and avoid all contact or should I get back teethe with him?!
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Girl, you do deserve better, and you know it.
As far as "he makes me happy," does he? He breaks up with you, cheats on you, is that happiness? No, this is drama & emotional abuse.
Here is your chance for a clean break. Move on.
Sometimes what we "want" is not what we "need" or what is good for us. This is the situation that you 2 have. Take time away from him, delete his # from your cell, tell a friend to help you keep busy & away from him. Go out & find someone else. You will be happier down the road. Chalk him up to a life lesson.
Good luck, girl.0