long story short: I freaked out on this guy I was dating because he was non commital and was talking to a girl who was a friend but who he had slept with. I think they dated very casually for a year or were fwb. we break up, been in very short brief contact. we agreed to meet up. I asked him. he said he could but I hesitated and took a really long time to get back to him. he flakes off. a week later he reappears and says we should hang out soon. I then, see on Facebook he's re added that "friend" on Facebook and she posted some innuendos on his wall, territorial pissing pretty much. we had agreed to meet up soon. I said I would let him know next week. if he is seeing his ex why is he contacting me and why is he letting me know he is seeing her. it makes no sense. why bother? we weren't friends before we dated.
Why is my ex doing this when he is seeing another girl?
What Guys Said 3
He is trying to date both I think as long as he is contacting you and you never show up or haven't yet. Because, he is trying to talk to you and wants to hang out knowing he is with another. That is If... it is he--that is trying to talk to you. If you are trying to talk to him and he never gets with you then he moved on. The only way I can see if he were to try and make you jealous is to not go around you and then rub it in your face that is dating another.
I am reading we agree to met up and then he goes away and reappears and then says we should hang out. Innuendos don't really mean anything unless its about they are back together. If they are talking like they are then they are.
Who started the back and forth between arranging to meet up?0
Thnik what you could have accomplished just in the time it took to write this question, let alone all the time wondering, setting times to meet up, exchanging e mails...reading his Facebook account...and so on.
Drop him once and for all.0
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