We are very close and we speak to each other all the time. We like each other a lot. She says that she is not over her ex. Her ex does not even try and keep in contact with her. Even when she calls him, he ignores her. He keeps saying that he's busy. A day or two is fine. But he's "busy" for over 6 months. Does it sound like a person who still likes her? No, right? And She still likes him. Due to this, I'm getting nowhere with her. I need some help. I need to help her stop thinking about him and help her get over him.
P.S - She knows that I have feelings for her.
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Well, I had a sort-like-dilema :) once... Because we created a certain type of bond whit a person means that letting go will do us no good.. that's why we try to cling on the last remains in the hope they will give in and return the love the once had, but the truth is this shall never happen, because there was a reason why the two of them broke up in the first place. My advice: You can do nothing but listen to her, listen to her that she misses him and what they had, try to understand why she still is hanging on the cut-rope, and when you understand and had the time to talk about thoses things you must be there for her as a good friends as you are now! Be there for her, she needs you! After a while when her thoughts about that other guy are passed by because she will notice that it hasn't had any result then she will find out that you where the one who was the whole time by her side, without taking any advantage of her when she was weak. really man, it works. BE THERE FOR HER! AND HAVE PATIENT!0