My ex and I started I guess talking again. Nothing to serious. We've gone on a few dates. Hold hads, she calls me babe, baby, sweet pea. All the things she use to when we first dated. To catch you up to speed on her and my past, we dated for about 6 months before I broke it off.. We both had our summer flings and what not.
Her and I are very busy with the things that we got going on in our lives right now. But, we still have this connection. My feelings for her are stronger than when we first went out. Infact I think I'm falling for her. She says she's not ready for a relationship right now. But yet when she asks how I feel about things and stuff.. She gives me the impression that she's wanting something to happen between us.. Specially when she does things that she use to do.
I don't know what to do and I'm scared. I messed things up from the first time. And I know she's worried that I'm going to leave her again. But I know in my heart I wont. I learned my leasson and I realized what I was missing. I want to show her that I've changed. But I don't know what to do. I need help please ='(.
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Based on the fact that she is giving you signs that she wants something more, I would just go for it. If you are falling for her again and you think she might be too just take the risk and ask her to be your girlfriend again. You may have to have a tough conversation about the whole "will you hurt her again" topic but if its meant to happen it will. Just take a deep breath and go for it. I am pretty much in the same situation where me and my ex are talking again and I want us to be something more... so that's what I want my ex to do with me. I hope this helps a little bit0