I think that my boyfriend is cheating, should I confront him? And how should I do it (I'm really not a hothead, so it would be a calm discussion)?
Would you confront your significant other if you thought they were cheating?
What Guys Said 3
yes. just ask him straightforwardly, and watch his reaction/body language as well as his response. At best, you find out. At worst, you look like a moron. That happens to all of us, every day, and its very temporary. Better to find out. You might also want to explain why you are suspicious.1
- ask if he's hanging out with one of his friends..
- if he is just casually ask 'oh how is SHE(say that word)'
- if he doesn't correct you then ask what him and her are doing.
- Whatever it is decide whether to finally confront him.0
What Girls Said 2
You should just ask. By waiting you're building up your suspicions and doubts and creating anxiety for yourself and your boyfriend who probably noticed a change in you since you've come to this conclusion. When you do ask him about it try not to be angry or confrontational, or he could feel threatened and either completely lie to you or question your relationship if he's not. If he is cheating it's for the best to keep it civil, as much as a needed bottle-throwing name-calling is warranted, it's not good.0
of course you should. don't accuse him of cheating, though. not unless you're 100% sure about it.0
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