So basically I have found out his an a**hole (before we started dating he said a lot of people thought he was an a**hole but I never saw that side of him) so now I'm seeing it I don't know what to do, should I confront him? should I be a bitch when I see him? or should I just say hi? I don't want to be a crazy ex that is like I know you did this this and this
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Isn't it funny how that works? Overall, I agree that you shouldn't care, but when he's still in your life with mutual friends, it's hard to get away from it. I'm in the same boat with one of my exes. However, I haven't talked to the guy in ages. But because of mutual friends, I find out misc. stuff and have been given plenty of reasons why I SHOULDN'T miss the guy (it's amazing how you never see this stuff while in the relationship, isn't it?).
As far as responding- don't. Don't even worry or bother. If he wants to go around being a jack ass, fine. Let him. He's digging his own grave. I'm already seeing the same thing with my ex. I've stayed out of everything and just am privy to info, if anything. I've learned that with some of the bs he does, his friends do NOT care for, and/or are starting to dislike him a little because of it.
Nice little side note- he ditched me and inadvertently said "get lost." His friends like me and want to keep me around. Says a lot about the situation, doesn't it? Same about yours, too. If his best friend sees nothing wrong with you and is a friend (assuming he has no ulterior motive) post break up, it says more about him than you.
Let your ex do his little self destructive thing. It sounds like he's being really immature about the entire situation. Let him. He'll look like the fool in the end.0