I'm just wondering, is it morally okay to kiss a guy who is in a relationship?
My gut instinct tells me there is something wrong with this plan, but I have heard from several different friends and acquaintances that "it's just a kiss" or "it's not a big deal."
The boy in question is leading me on because he has a girlfriend already and I've received advice from my "counselor" suggesting I kiss him because then I'll know if there are any true feelings there on either side.
Now, I'm not the kind of girl to kiss someone just for the heck of it. I would do it in a heartbeat if he were single, but his relationship status concerns me. Firstly, I'm not going to be the reason they break up. Not like that. Secondly, I don't want to convey that sort of image to him or anyone. Thirdly, assuming I lost all sanity and did it, I'm pretty sure she would hunt me down and kill me.
so really I'm just interested in your opinion. Please don't judge me based on the question. It's mostly a research type thing since most of my peers seem to think this is perfectly okay. I guess I'm also looking for validation that I am correct in my assessment that there is something morally wrong with this situation.
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If he cheats on his girlfriend with you chances are he's going to cheat on you also. Tell him to break off things with his girlfriend and you can take relationship to the next level. If he doesn't then there is nothing there and he just wants to fool around and most likely f*** you.5