OK its been three months since my ex and I broke up and I'm still quite NOT over it yet :/ I'm still in pain and I still cry up until now. how many of you guys are STILL hurt over your ex even though its been a while since the breakup? how many of you guys STILL miss him/her? and do you sometimes act like you are OK and over it but deep down inside your still hurting over him/her? because I do my friends think I'm completely over him when in reality I'm not :/ I could really fake a smile... hbu guys?
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Firstly... you are under 18 and stunning, not to mention the fact that you obviously have a good heart to still care about someone who hurt you! So remember that you are an absolute catch and anyone would be lucky to have you!
But in answer to your question my longest was almost a year.. I think what makes you realize you are over someone is if you think if your ex came up to you and was like 'lets get back together?' would you? If no then your just lonely, I mean I don't want my last ex boyfriend back he turned out to be a d*** and I ended things with him but when I have no one else it's hard not to miss him.. also allot of the time I think that he will come to his senses and realize his not going to do better.. unfortunately this majority of the time is unrealistic or when an ex has come back its too late and I'm over them!
But I'm OK because I know that in the relationship I was 100% myself, faithful and a good person and there's nothing more I could have done. But in terms of your friends with me usually after a month I act like I'm completely over him because if people know you not then people talk sh*t and also 'fake it until you make it!" if people are always asking are you ok?! how you going to get over him!0