,i have bee dating dating my boss for a year and two months now.all is good (TG)this past summer I was told by his ex girlfriend also a past secretary of his, that he was seeing her when with his ex GF,he also dated another secretary from the building, he claims that he started seeing the first secretary when the relationship with his girlfriend was toward its last ropes.my mind is totally screwed up because of this,him and I know I need another job and now I am afraid that if and when I do get another job he will then start f***ing around with his new secretary .i don't know what to think anymore.i truly love him and he swears he feels the same but I don't want to sit and set myself up for a heart break .because she told me one story he told me another,but I believe hers because she has no reason to lie, he does ,and that reason being he doesn't want to look like an a**hole or to end the relationship ,so I don't know what to think anymore should I continue to see him ,and people please do not say it happened 15 years ago which it did,because if someone raped someone 20 years ago wouldn't he still be looked at as a rapist.or guys if you met a girl and she confessed she was once a hooker 20 years ago ,wouldn't your head wonder what she is capable of now,or what we like to say once a cheater always a cheater.its hypocritical to say that and then say it happened 15 years ago, I don't excuse it because of time passed because he is still walking around with the same brain that he did 15 years ago when he was capable of cheating ..please guys and girls give me some advice should i sit around and wait till he does it again or should I just leave him completely.thank you and your honest comments will be appreciated but your sarcastic ones if any won't be ..thank you
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Has he given you reason to think he would cheat on you? Has HE? Not, the other women.
I do not think, once a cheater always a cheater..people change..and sometimes things happen that
screw up someone's mindset on their current relationship. You shouldn't believe other women..they are conniving and evil who probably just don't want to see him happy. Why? Because they are probably mad it didn't work with them. I see ALL the time other girls telling my friends that their bf's will cheat because they cheated with their ex's but you cannot believe them.0
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