I have been courting this absolutely perfect and beautiful girl for a while now. We have the best relationship imaginable. We both think we are each others' future spouse for sure. Perfection has been definitely apparent. Then I realized that I haven't told her about my strong ambitions to become a missionary doctor to Africa. I strongly believe this is where God is leading me and there is no way I am going to say no to Him. So I told her about it and as would be expected, she freaked out. It wasn't fair of me to throw this on her like this after everything has been going perfect. We talked about it later in depth, and she said she would pray about it and wait for an answer from God with time. This was encouraging to me and everything seemed under control. Then on that same night, I received a call from her. She was bawling her eyes out as she hurtfully told me that she can't go to Africa with me and she couldn't ever do that. She said goodbye then hung up the phone. I cried myself to sleep thinking I lost the girl of my dreams forever. It is the day after and she hasn't called or anything. what should I do? I'm so distressed and sad. Please, what's going on? Anyone
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I'm sorry. No advice except maybe find out why she said no.