I just saw the new Rihanna video We found love
…In the beginning the narrator talks about a roller coaster relationship and tough heart break, below is a snip-bit of what she says:
"It's like you're screaming but no one can hear. You almost feel ashamed that someone could that be that important, that without them you feel like nothing. No one will ever understand how much it hurts. You feel hopeless like nothing can save you. And when it's over and it's gone, you almost wish that you could have all that bad stuff back so you could have the good."
Do you agree with what she is says. That among the painful heartbreak you almost wish you could re-live all the bad things in order to feel the good and still feel connected with that person? I know I reach a low point about 3 years ago with a bad break up and I refused to move on…I claimed I was but deep down the pain in a weird way made me feel connected to them, Like it was the last piece I could hold onto that bonded us together. One final string that I refused to cut. No matter how toxic and sickening that was I realized I wasted my time…have any of you felt this way or still are going through this? Vent to me! Let it out and let me know your experiences with your toxic love…..and how long did I take you to move on?
For me it was 3 years. We dated for 5 and he continued to keep in touch until finally I had to cut all strings and move on. HARD AS HECK but 2 months later I found my boyfriend and fell madly in love with him..he wasn’t a rebound I was completely emotionally available ?
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A part of me wishes I could be invisible to her if only I could see her or hear her voice again. Almost every night I hear her songs she wrote about relationships gone by and I wish more than anything I could tell her I would be the one to never let her go or treat her badly. I can't sleep when I think of her, because I keep holding on to the memories that I recorded in my mind and play them back all the time. I still see her smile in the tinted shadow of those street lights as we talked till 5 in the morning.
I would give anything to have her back, all the money, health, future to be held by her again because it was the only time since I met her I felt whole again. I would gladly listen to her be mad at me if it was the only way I could hear her or see her...but I would never do anything to make her upset. I once told her that many men's goals are to find a woman to marry and then never treat her as special as they once did...I said I would never make it my goal to tie her down in some legalities, paperwork, and a fancy wedding...all I wanted to do with my life was see her smile and know that I was the source of that joy in her life...like the joy she provided in my life. I wish all the time I could tell her these things and she would understand that what I say is true - but I don't think she would give me a chance...and I die a little.
Yeah...I know how it feels...0
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