i am a very faithful person and just don't understand why men feel the need to cheat. can you explain it to me? I cam up with a list of what comes to my mind.
- Unhappy in relationshipVote A
- Fear commitmentVote B
- Disbelief in monogamyVote C
- Temptation by other womenVote D
- OtherVote E
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I forgot to add. To belief of the reason of temptation by other women, is to belef that men are not rational beings and that men are only driven by impulses, just like animals...very misandrist in my opinion. Men are rational beings and we are tempted every day by women, we see attractive women all the time and we think, how we wish to sleep with that girl, but obviously we won't do it because first we have a mind. That mind has a conscience that tell us not to go and have sex with any random that we want because its not socially right and two because it is illegal (rape), unlike animals that when they are in heat, they go for whatever female is on sight. If we are in a relationship and we are NOT HOLDING ANYTHING AGAINST OUR PARTNER we do not have the incentive to cheat, because we know it is wrong, because we know it is going to hurt the other person and we care for that person, that is the last thing we want to do. A man who is happy in a relationship can hold the temptation to not cheat towards his partner, because if that wasn't true then there would be no point in having relationships, as men would just cheat with any women that comes in our sight...we would be without a doubt just like animals, having sex with any female and then walking away.1